Touching/physical touch is an essential part of seduction. You can't pick up a female until you first develop a basic degree of mutual tactility - I.E. Before you go in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you must first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously places her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer - whatever form the physical contact takes, it must be present for you to achieve your ultimate goal of actual seduction. And this is where many guys struggle: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? How can a guy create reciprocal physical connection with a female who isn't tactile without frightening her out or scaring her away?
Men frequently "go for it" and end up making the female feel uncomfortable or even a little violated as a result of their hurried attempt at physical proximity. Other men decide they don't want to risk offending a girl, so they avoid any kind of touching or bodily contact - doing so usually sends the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or is simply too shy to show it, neither of which are appealing scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. So, what's the answer to this unpleasant situation?
Simply put, you need to follow a few basic rules or procedures that conform to the personal boundaries of most girls (and thus do not appear uncalled-for or rushed) while also clearly indicating that you're a confident guy who isn't afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let us investigate.
1. Many guys believe that touching a female in any manner when they first meet her is strictly forbidden. But it is just not the case. When you initially introduce yourself or start chatting to a female, casually and softly touch the outside of her right arm while vocally conveying anything to build a favorable, powerful first impression and an immediate relationship. The outside of a woman's arm isn't personal enough for the contact to seem awkward or out of place, but it is a clear indication that you're a pleasant, socially savvy type of guy. Don't be scared to give it a shot; you'll see the difference right away.
2. Maintaining physical contact is vital once you've begun a discussion with a female, or when you find yourself casually conversing with a lady you like the appearance of. This helps to sustain the link and rapport you've already established, as well as to expand it into mutually felt romantic attraction. You may accomplish this by employing a technique known as 'Stealth Tactility.' Simply said, stealth tactility entails initiating physical touch with the female while disguised.For example, if she wants to go to the bar or the bathroom but doesn't know how, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies around until you face in the right direction, then pointing past other people or obstacles to where she needs to go with your other hand.
3. Finally, when you terminate a conversation with a female, always strive to employ a 'contact close.' Give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss after exchanging numbers or arranging to meet again. Many guys believe that after a date is set, the hard work is done, but establishing physical contact before you split with a female is always a wonderful way to ensure she remembers you and can't wait to see you again.
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