• A young man from a scholar complained

that my parents are old age and they often keep me secret even though I provide them everything they ask for.   ۔   The scholar saw the young man from head to toe and said, 'Son, this is the reason for their anger that you bring them what they ask for.'   The young man said that I did not understand what you were saying.   ۔   The scholars started saying ... Son, have you ever considered that?   When you were not in the world, your parents had prepared everything for you before you came.   Clothes for you   Your food management   Your safety management   You will not get cold if it is hot then it will not be warm.   Arrange your rest   Until your case is needed, your parents did this before you came into the world.   ۔…۔   - then go ahead ...   Did your parents ever ask you if your son would admit you to school?   Likewise, if you have ever been asked to enroll in a college or university - but for your better future you will have to arrange for admission to school and college.   Likewise, your father would never have asked for your uniform for your school transport for your first job, but according to your ability, the best thing you could do was ask for it.   You may not even realize that when you were young, your parents would start looking for you - a good girl who could serve you well and take care of you.   While searching for a girl, their top priority will be your service, but never in their minds. It will never come to us to bring a bride who is also serving us and our son.   Clothing for you - your first bike - your first motorcycle - your first school - your toys, your talk, your training - your rambunctious moves - the color of a talking conversation - even your mouth. Up to the first word, your parents have taught you for free and without your demand.   And today you say that - whatever they ask me I bring them in. Yet they remain.   Go start begging parents.   Think of their needs as your children's needs.   If you can't help them - give them your valuable time - serve them - take care of the house - take responsibility for yourself - become the father of your children, just as your parents would be - and give them away. Start ..   Make yourself capable of not needing or demanding them from you - or they never miss you or at least - give them your time - ask them problems -   If their finances cannot help, then serve them   Have you ever seen the heels of a mother or father's feet?   Ever put any cream or oil on these torn heels like they used to when you were little ??   Have you ever put oil on your mother or father's head because when you were a child, they regularly rubbed oil on your head. Your mother used to trim your hair and then trim your hair.   Ever pressed your father's feet even though your father pressured you many times -   Have you ever stood with your mother or father in the water with a towel or a towel? As they used to wash your mouth with warm water in childhood…   Do something right

  ۔…۔ Bring them on without asking   - ... pick up their responsibilities.   - ... take the time to look at them   ......... ... look at serving them.   - Have them with you always   Don't think of yourself as a blessing. Look at them as a blessing.  

He made you a successful human being by nurturing your day and night without any burden to you - without understanding the burden. Treat them kindly - then look, they are happy and Allah is happy too.   After hearing these words of the scholar, the young Ashkab became a bar and the eyes of the rest of the audience were also born.   It is a fact that such exhilarating things cannot be found in any university in the world. Only and only religious scholars can do such training.   May Allah keep the shadow of such scholars always - ever.   And give every man this - pleasant and happy - that he - before his parents' demand - knows his needs - to the end.   Ameen .....   2