Throughout my whole life, I have witnessed many people around me (including me) who didn’t master the art to say no to anyone and find it complex as it may hurt the next person’s sentiments or he may not talk to you again. But the point here is, has he been able to nod yes to everything you said to them? Were they able to conquer your heart by listening to you? Were they present when you needed them the most? If yes, then you should also be available to them when they wave to you for help. But in some cases, where you don’t feel right saying yes, say no. It is very okay to say no. Say No with some tricks, don’t make them feel disgusted about you, or don’t give them chance to question your relationship qualities. And for people, who were never there for you, you cannot be available to them by saying no and it’s completely fine. Here are 5 tricks to say no, which will not be mocked by anyone and you will not be judged:
1. Be open to them. Tell them the whole scenario and why you can’t say yes to everything they say. Tell them about your activities that hinder you to do so. If they are true to their relationship with you, they will understand and will not bother to ask for that again.
2. Don’t ask them to give you some time to think about it. It will make them wait for you or it may also introduce a feeling of hope in them. In spite of hurting their exaggerated feelings for you, say them no for a reason.
3. Toxicity is what you can see, anywhere in this modern world. If there is such a toxic mate of you who has destroyed your calmness and always ask for your help and when it comes to him, leaves you as if he was not ever with you. Stay away from them. And there is no need to say yes to what they demand of you. It’s what, will make you selfless, and your respect will be ruined substantially.
4. Say no, if the requirement or demand is disrupting your brain cells and making you anxious. Mental health is more important than the relationship with a certain individual. Don’t compromise it. You can earn a better friend in the future, but once your mental stability gets disturbed, there is no way of achieving it again.
5. You say yes to certain things you are not capable of or things that destroy you from the inside. You should sit alone, take a deep breath and think, what is important to you? Your inner peace or outer hugs love from people, who often make it fake. If you think about yourself, the answer would definitely be yes, inner peace should be a priority. The other person, the one who is demanding, is your real mate, loves you in real, he will definitely understand your situation and he will also not allow you to disintegrate your piece within yourself.
BE SHARP, AND CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY, NOT BLINDLY.
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