Relationship Tips: Husband's endless love, why do women fall in love with other men?
Just as there is love in a romantic relationship or marriage, there is also a strong relationship based on trust. But once the husband finds out, his wife is committing adultery? How much did he get hurt? Why are women attracted to other men (Extra Marital Affair)?Relationships have several foundations. In which faith is one of them. When the foundation of faith is shaken in a marriage, that relationship can be said to be almost dead. Why does one partner cheat on the other even after having a healthy marriage? Have you ever thought about this? For example, many men regret saying that my wife's relationship with me was fine, but why did she cheat on me? Why get involved with someone else! They do not find the answer to this question in thousands. But why do women cheating?
In order to find this answer, we must first listen to the experiences of two women who have at one time or another been involved. I will listen to the expert's opinion as to why men and women tend to commit adultery. Women are more prone to adultery? I will look for answers in the survey.
Experience 1:
“My husband was involved with his secretary. I also thought at that time, I do not want to be a good wife. Because he has ruined all my faith. I also do ‘One Night Stand’ with other men. Honestly, I have no regrets. Many have been blamed, tears have flowed. We are moving forward again. "
Sneha, 33 years old
Experience 2:
“My husband and I are working together. But yes, I cheated on him once. I was on a business trip at the time. At that time I became close with other men. Honestly, I don't feel that kind of love for him now. But I have to think about my child. I want to think about my child. He is the father of my child. I don't want my child to grow up in a broken family. "
Akangsha, 32 years
We contacted Debanjan Pan, a prominent psychiatrist and director of Salt Lake Mindset.
He emphasized a few things. In fact, both husband and wife have a tendency to cheat. For this reason, the husband or wife can go and cheat on his partner at some point in life.
According to doctor Devanjan Pan, the desire for instant gratification is very bad. Doctor Debanjanbabu thinks that the issue is increasing lately. Because now people want to get quick satisfaction. In other words, I am thinking of giving more effort in the matter about which We are trying to find satisfaction from someone else.
It can be physical or mental. There will always be physical intimacy, it doesn't make sense. On the contrary, the tendency to have peace of mind remains. For the same reason we prefer instant food instead of cooked food. I want to get satisfaction without labor. Because, we don't want to hurt. Hidden here is the terrible seed of destruction.
Is it possible to get married very easily? What do you think? In fact, there are many stages in the relationship. At first two people were attracted to each other. At that time our emotions are controlled by the hormone adrenaline. But this stage does not last very long.
So we need to make efforts to strengthen this marriage. But our lives are now full of too much ambiguity. Can I think on my own?Can I go upstairs and think?
So husband and wife about marriage What you demand from, is not fulfilled. But we do not think to pay attention to it. At that time other thoughts started coming in the mind. We strive for instant gratification rather than strengthening what we are about. If education of values is not from a young age then this mistake tends to be more.
***According to doctor Devanjan Pan, marital or romantic relationship goes through three stages. At first an attraction of two companions works towards each other. Get physical and mental satisfaction from opposite people. At this stage the adrenaline hormone is more effective. Then gradually our needs towards the partner are created. It can be physical and mental. At this point, if the partner can keep our mind well, then we become more dependent on the partner. At this stage dopamine hormone is more effective.
However, in order to maintain a lifelong relationship, it is necessary to give a lot of effort. In this step oxytocin hormone is the main . These hormones play a very effective role in strengthening the bonds with each other. This hormone plays a very effective role in strengthening the bond. But it is at this point that we do not try to strengthen the bond. I give less labor and leave towards instant gratification. We now have a lot of options. Life could not have been imagined as it was decades ago. Now the tendency to cheat is more because we have a lot of options. This virtual world has never been opened to the public before. Now option after option in the virtual world. Then I try to strengthen a relationship.
The Gliden app was launched in France in 2009.It came to India in 2016. Of this appThirty percent of Indian users are women.
Those aged 34 to 49 years. A survey was conducted on behalf of this app. Where such information comes up. In India, 8 out of 10 women have cheated on their husbands. Because, they do not help in any household works. In some cases, married life has become monotonous. So they have an extramarital affair.
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