WHY WE ARE NOT LIVING FOR OTHERS?

About the topic:

We all know that when we help others or do work for them, it will keep them happy and us. So we always feel good when we do something for others.

It keeps a happy and healthy environment. So, that everyone develops themselves. But in actuality, we are not doing so. Here is why we are not doing this or not living for others.

What are we doing? 

The reality is that we are not living for others; we live justly to satisfy our lifestyle,  which is good at some points, but it's not healthy for our society. So living for yourself is okay, but to forget your responsibility towards society is not right.

 • Nowadays, people are learning how to make a profit in any aspect. They don't think about other's losses. Yes, ups and downs are a part of life; everyone has to face some bad situations in their life. But it doesn't mean that we don't have to think about others' feelings or conditions.

• People want to play smart, but they don't feel that this is their sin. One day they have to pay for this.

• A student who is distracted because of some bad environment, and he/she is distributing his/her friends too. Instead of teaching their knowledge to others.

• A youngsters who should know aware people of current situations, but he/she is cheating on others, doing illegal jobs, fraud on people to earn money.

Youngsters have to play their role in society. They have to understand their responsibilities, but today they themselves are not following the rules and doing wrong things to satisfy themselves; they don't want to understand the consequences of their wrong karmas.

• Today, people forget to spend time with family and neighbors; they just give their time to earn money to not even get over their death.
People are not making strongerbondsd or relations; they think that money is their everything. 

• People do wrong jobs, even against family to earn money and if not, they are not supporting each other. Just playing a double role, they are not aware that they are missing their respect in society.

Living for others:

We have to live for others because:-

• When we are born, there are the efforts of others are not. Then, there are the blessed hands of our parents. So, we were born on this beautiful earth.

• We grew up with so many good values with the help of others like our parents, grandparents, relatives, and friends. 

• We got excellent knowledge, improve our skills again with the help of others (especially our teachers).

• Others help in settling us gives good advice to us.

• We make relation with someone and involve others in our celebration. 

• When we get old, we depend on others at some point in life.

• After death, others will do all the rituals of the death ceremony. So we give all things that we earn in life to others.

• In last, all is left are others.

Our moral duty:

• We have to respect others. So if anyone hurts you, please forgive that person; it's your goodness.  

• I know that everyone doesn't agree with you in today's world but still does that work that has profited both you and others. 

• It's good to develop yourself, but don't pull others in danger, help them develop in their life, and like this, the whole world will develop.

• No one is bad in all aspects. So, try to find the person's immenseness. And try to give a nice compliment to others because everyone is facing some problem. And because of that problem, people always think negative thoughts; they don't want to think about the bad thoughts, but they cannot control them.
When we focus on the positive side, we feel everything is positive, but we face only negativity when we focus on the negative things. So, please "Be a proton in someone's life."

Benefits:

• When we help others, then they also give it back; of course, we do not have to expect from them.

• We do not have to hurt another in any situation. I know some people are satirical, but still, tany ways to softly handle such a situation. 
So, that no one feels disheartened and everyone lives together with ease.

• If we all live together happily, then the offense will reduce automatically.

I hope you all realize that how important  it is to behave well and help others, not just for showing  but for good karmas.

Day by day, we are forgetting our values. 
So, we need to learn the values from elders, if they don't have time to teach you then, notice them and learn yourself.
On this earth we have to spread knowledge, love not to make our life valueless.

We had learned that before birth and after death what remains is other people.
"So, don't spend your time  showing off, invest your time to make others happy".