Why there is of emotional relationship lack between parents and children

Today's man life is so fast and everyone trying to keep himself in pace of life without knowing that during this effort he is losing so many beautiful blessings spread around him gifted by nature luckily.  Man is progressing financially,  he own better life style   have so many facilities to help him,  he has money to spend on his family needs,  but during all these h some how neglecting his responsibility which he has to obey being a parent.  As i considere myself as part time teacher,  because doing teaching job to pass my time,  i observed that relationship of strong bounding between the parents and children is lacking so strongly that reale face of this relation faded away. Parents just involve them in such activities where they think that their responsibility is to earn money more and more and make themselves so capable where they can provide every thing which is needed to their kids.  They indulge themselves busy from day and night,  they want to provide every single luxury so that their children become something in their lives.  They  suffer all hardships but while doing all these don't realise the consequences and most important things to do for them. Parents send their children in best schools , after coming back to the school or college,  they send to the extra coaching class where they spend their most of time   and parents think that their children are doing so much hard work, they don't need to ask them or nothing needs to do on their behalf. Parents puts all their responsibilities on some other to whom they pay a certain amount,  if they would not get required result they would get hired someone else on higher payments.  Intention and love of parents for their children and their well-being can't be doubt at all,  but  they need to realise their faults.  Money and luxurious can be compromised, not having luxurious are acceptable but lack of parents presence around them can never be compensate . Absence of parents bring their children close to other   they maybe their class fellow who are their own age but come from different family backgrounds,  they would indulge them in such activities which would not acceptable in our family norms. When same age fellow company each other  they maybe be indulge in bad activities on the name of adventure or to prove them superior among others. The may cause the kids in the position where it would be difficult and impossible to guide something and get them back to the right track.  They may be  get close to strangers who used them in wrong ways   children are innocent and have immature thinking,  it can be molde in any shape provided environment to them.  Parents have to realise, they are responsible and answerable to God  for children   what they can do for them,  nobody can do for them. Parents intention and effection for their children we being can not  doubt at all,  but i must say they need to over veiw their way to express it must be change.  Parents would spend quality time with them,  find their shortcomings and try to find  solution with their help would definitely give so good results.  This would help parents as well as kids,  parents would not rushed to earn more money and  kids would have confidence to solve it by themselves.  Parents are great blessings for children and their world revolve around them,  similarly for parents  their children are every thing and strong bounding between them  is a key for good results in life for ever. Don't spoil this by indulging in other's. 

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