Why second marriage?

When a mother gives birth to a child, she starts wondering about their future, about how she is going to raise her baby, what kind of education she wants to give her child, most importantly, what kind of person her child will be going to marry in the future. Her love for her child is so intense, that no one can beat it. When a person is ready to marry, their parents have lots of thoughts buzzing in their head, is that person who their child is going to marry, will take good care? Will he give her full attention? And most importantly, is he going to live with her for the rest of his life, or will he marry again to some other woman. Those thoughts, sometimes, haunt a mother and father. Every son is a prince, and every daughter is a princess, in the eyes of their parents. As it is well known, that nothing remains the same, so as our moods, our thoughts, our feelings, our appearance, even our bank balance. This is the rule, created by the God. He takes our exams. But unfortunately, many people take this very seriously, and burdens themselves. They start losing their temper, and start yelling on their life partner, even on little arguments. And those little arguments starts growing bigger and bigger, resulting in a form of divorce. Similarly, when a person living with another person whom they are married to, a time comes in their lives where, sometimes, they want to take a second turn. And O yes, that turn looks so very beautiful to them. They want to marry again to a brand- new person. But there are also, uncountable marriages where this bond of two persons gets, stronger and stronger with time. Do you think they don't go through obstacles of life, they don't have fights with each other, are those people angels? No, they are also human beings just like others. Then why this kind of people never thinks about a second marriage or don't want to take a new turn in their lives. Because they want to save their homes. In the time they got married, it was already in their minds, and probably teaching of their parents, that from now on, you have to compromise on many things, you have to save your home. If the person you are married to, is in some kind of stress or anger, and starts shouting and yelling at you, or throwing things in the house. You should keep your mouth closed, and try to keep your self calm. And, yes that is very difficult, after all we are humans, we also have feelings, we also have heart. We are not made up of stone. But if we compromise at that critical time, and don't lose our temper, our marriage will be saved. As time passes, our life partner will be normal. So what is the main point, what is the main answer to all this? The answer, my friend, is to compromise, compromise, and compromise.