Happiness is a feeling that we humans seek within ourselves. One thing can make a person happy for a while, but happiness is for the whole lifetime. If someone thinks that money can buy happiness, then that bought happiness is not true. Wealth is highly valued, and we often overlook the simple things that give us true happiness. One of the things that gives happiness is love. It doesn't cost anything, but can fill your life with happiness. This feeling cannot be bought. It cannot be traded for any amount in the world.
Many people think that happiness can be achieved with the help of money or that you need money to be happy, but there are some of us who believe that the best thing in life is freedom. There are many things that can make us really happy without charging any cost. Friends, family, relationships are all precious. Such things cannot be bought, and that is the real happiness. Many people believe that money or comfort can make them happy, or that they can buy things they believe can make them happy.
Our family, friends and relatives are the people who have stood by us in our joys and sorrows. All the memories we have were given to him by him and our conflicts, hurts, embarrassment, dating experiences and all the other extraordinary stories are familiar to him. No wealth on planet earth can make up for the memories that make up. Memories are created automatically, so they cannot be paid for. I am a family man, so I cannot appreciate why some people think money can buy happiness.
Many of our friends look like treasures to us. A friend is someone who likes you and believes in you however you are, even when you stop believing in yourself. The friendship we form is a strong thread and the people we connect with emotionally. Money cannot obstruct our outlook nor buy true friends for us. We as human beings will be very sad when we have to live without our friends because we will have no one to talk about happiness and sorrow.
I have seen many people who buy clothes, accessories, food or anything for them to make friends. This trick may work, but only for a short time. It is clear from this that money cannot buy happiness.
Can you be happy when you have a big mansion to live in, an indoor swimming pool to bathe in or a luxury car to drive or is it related to a sense of freedom, love, relationships and self-knowledge?
Basically, there are two types of people who think that money cannot buy happiness – first those who have more money but still find themselves unhappy and secondly those who do not have money.
What is happiness?
Is there any difference between happiness and joy?
Happiness is always defined differently by different people. One's happiness may prove to be unfortunate for another. So what is happiness after all? It is something that separates you from material pleasures, and you live in constant bliss. You increase your happiness by calmly helping and caring for others. This kind of happiness cannot be bought with money.
Need vs Desire
Life is very simple, but we make it complicated. The basic law of life consists of 'needs and desires'. The basic things like bread, cloth and house etc. which are necessary for human life are called needs. The needs of adequate money, electricity, education and transportation in modern life can also be counted in this. Once one fulfills his basic needs, he does not stop there but his wants increase further. When a person meets the requirements of salary increase, a better house in the city, expensive clothes, luxury vehicles, etc., he takes up world travel, a luxury villa and new hobbies like golf, boating etc.
So basically desire never ends and if happiness is dependent on these factors then it will be very difficult to think how one will find happiness as he will always be busy achieving more and more. It is good to be ambitious and money can be a good driving force to lead a comfortable life, but when one becomes greedy and selfish than the ultimate goals of life change from materialistic things. Achievement gives happiness, but for a short duration. We work hard for years to get something, but some disappear in days or months.
This term happiness can be explained by the happiness model. It's quite easy. Happiness is the presentation that can bring maximum rewards. Let's take a look at the model of happiness:
Happiness model
According to this model if you do and like what you do then it is obvious that you want to know it better, and you have better clarity on the subject. With this clarity you are bound to perform better which drives you to success and also for the reward associated with it.
A psychological study has shown that greater happiness, comfort, and positivity can play a role in performing better. If a person is in a state of happiness and he does the activity, then he is sure to be successful. This enables him to perform at a superior level.
What is gained by this? It reaps the rewards that are your goal. It may or may not be related to money. These are related to getting a simple appreciation from your superior and a compliment on the back for successfully doing the job. On the other hand it can be the achievement of your sales goal and the bonus associated with it, or it can also be a great chance of getting promotion.
More consistency and stability is your happiness and optimistic outlook, which will lead to the betterment of your performance.
A person comes to work every day with enthusiasm, so whatever work he does then he will be more productive and more successful. Nothing is different in his personal life as well.
The best things in life are really free. We don't realize how much love, family, and friends there is, but when we really analyze it, we know that the best things in life really are free. Money can buy materialistic things and relationships, which That are for a short time, whereas for relationships made with heart and feelings. Money is not required. Remember, money can't buy you happiness, but happiness can buy you more money.
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