why is understanding important in a relationship ?

Transparency, loyalty, dedication, respecting each other's feelings/decisions, caring, trusting, accepting each other; for me, these are the topmost priority in a relationship.

You don't have to agree on each other points of view every time, but you can respect each other's thoughts by allowing each other to take their decision, to be their own selves.

There may come a situation where your partner won't feel like talking to you about a certain thing, and that has to be completely acceptable. There should not be any leak for questions or doubts. This is when you can make them feel safe and comfortable by trusting them so that the partner could talk about his/her issues & express feelings without hesitating. Doing so will make sure that there are complaints regarding secrets.

Whatever might be the case, always be dedicated to your partner. Before thinking about changing your partner, work on yourself. Accept them as they are.

If you feel something is wrong or shouldn't be like this, communicate with your partner and convince them, but don't persuade if they are not ready to make any changes. It's better to give that person space to think, let them do it by themselves. It will be more efficient & permanent, and you will never get a chance to face more blame games.

The things I have learned from relationships in my just  6 months of life go as follows:

1. In relationships, you go through the good and the bad, the happy and the sad; doing it together makes all the difference.
2. Communication makes the difference between a good and bad relationship.
3. It's not how you begin an argument; it's how you end it.
4. Sometimes people want more of a mommy/daddy figure than an actual partner.
5. Never underestimate the power of a heartfelt thank you, be it from you or for you.
6. Manners are important, and it never gets old to feel appreciated.
7. There will be a lot of giving and take. Please do your best to be sure it's an even exchange.
8. Alone-time and together-time are equally important.
9. Always, always, ALWAYS be honest and truthful with your significant other. I cannot stress this enough. When the truth goes out the window, there really only is a shell of the former relationship left.

Be sure you both know what you expect from the relationship.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

Relationships require sacrifice, but we shouldn’t give up or give in without thinking it through. It is important to consider the pros and cons, have clear communication with your partner, ask the tough questions, and make sure you are sacrificing for the right reasons. The right kind of sacrifice can bring people together, but sacrificing for the wrong reasons may be worse than no sacrifice at all.

Little adjustments for each other's happiness help to increase trust among the partners and self-worth…Lastly, The road to a successful relationship is full of twists and turns, but little adjustments can do wonders….

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Communication is interactive, whereas understanding is emotional. Good Communication leads to Good understanding, whereas bad leads to bad.

Remember, they both create impressions and memory that you'll go back to in the future.

That's why they are two pillars that need each other to stand and form a relationship.