Why is life difficult for the introvert in the 21st century?

Why is life difficult for the introvert in the 21st century?

  Life is only a reflection of our understanding.

  But let's face it, no matter how much we think life is getting easier and happening, the time will come when a social stigma in our perception will start to take on a certain form.

  In the current and rather ‘loud’ world, introverts are missed or worse, they are often misunderstood.

  We live in a world that is so much easier than it sounds. Doing justice has become an innate trait without making a mistake.

  This is not a blame game here, but the world is evolving so fast that being slow and quiet has become obsolete and minimal.

  We have very quiet and distant interfaces, easily accessible to the upper classes.

  Some things that interface, carry easily:

  Those we do not know; We have seen on some occasions that we think we are rude and arrogant.

  We do not necessarily start conversations or stay together; But it does not make us rude and annoying!

  Like everyone else, we may experience a desire to explore deeper conversations in depth, but it will take us longer to settle down.

   People who know very little about us. Only those who know us may think that we like to stay away from others. Well, they are not always rude, but they are sometimes 'boring'.

  Similar misunderstandings happen too!

  People who now know us well and have had some good conversations with us misjudge their initial judgment about us, they may not actually be so bored.

  But not even that interesting. But yes, at this stage we have gained some respect.

  Now these are the various levels that are considered introverts, by the world.

 In all cases, an immediate burst of excitement is not observed. It takes some time and effort to bring the interface to light and to understand it properly.

  And that doesn’t mean we don’t like socializing. Sometimes we want a lot of some socialization. We are waiting for the right conditions.

 There is an extrovert hidden in every introvert and another way may be true.

  But every time an introvert encounters the above misunderstandings, the extrovert, and the real person inside gives goosebumps.

  But once we start being comfortable with someone, it’s a completely different story!

  However, the difficulty of being introverted lies in misunderstanding rather than not understanding.

  As a post‌script, the conditions described above are not generalized to all interfaces; But we can relate to them on different levels.

  This pure quality in him is seen as innocence and stupidity in today’s world.

  In a world where relationships with a fingerprint are built up and broken, they can easily get confused, and thus, gain some advantage (even introverts are too easily trusted to feel intimidated by the other person).

  Also, in today's world people say something and understand something, or everyone talks about it, these are important things that, are not understood by the values ​​of today's generation.

  They hate such double standards and never use them. For them, faith comes from within and does not develop by constantly sticking with people.

  Thus, introverts are front and back in today’s hollow and helpless world. Do what they like with what they have, do not worry about materialism.

  Love and faith are the most important thing to them, and these two are rarely seen.

  So the introverts feel that they have lost themselves in such a world, and the society is bothering them, so much, making their life difficult.

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