Anyone can meet selfish people in a hurry. It is seen that he is taking all the topics of discussion back to himself. He is always proud of his greatness.
She wants to be separated from her family of ten in all respects. But sometimes its features can be seen more subtly.
It is always difficult to recognize the selfish again. Because many times their characteristics are not clearly expressed.
W. Kenneth Campbell, head of the Department of Psychology at the University of Georgia and a researcher on altruism, said there is an ongoing tendency among those who have selfish traits. If you suddenly meet someone on the way, their use will not be understood as they are terribly selfish people. But later the signs of selfishness will be seen in him.
Iowa State University, Associate Professor of Psychology. Gelaton Kriezen said, ‘A kind of selfish person presents himself as strongly dominant. Another type is shy, those who do not present themselves easily and are narrow in nature. But they firmly believe that their day will come. '
Eager to assert themselves as leaders: Even if they are not successful, they always try to keep themselves at the leadership level. San Diego State University Department of Psychology professor and Campbell's collaborator in the study of selfishness. Zion Twainz said they always wanted to see themselves as leaders. But he doesn't see if he can lead well. They really want to be leaders, no matter what.
Mentioning the names of important people for the shelves: Campbell said that this type of selfish person mentions the names of his relatives or big important people to make his position bigger and highlights their famous sayings, sources, events etc. They use this strategy to strengthen their position in the negotiations. They also present true-false stories of their own communication or interest with them.
Does not tolerate his own criticism: This kind of selfish person does not accept his criticism in any way. Researcher Campbell said he could not stand anyone criticizing him. He does not even acknowledge any of the negative aspects of his criticism.
Avoid the side of failure: In this kind of selfish life there must be many aspects of failure but he will avoid the aspects of his failure. Even when he hears that his close friend or classmate is in danger or in a bad situation, he avoids them. Campbell said they view each other with suspicion when it comes to relationships. No one else will ever trust him for using them to ruin a relationship.
Deceptive attitude: Such selfish people always look at others with suspicion and do not want to believe. They may seem very attractive outwardly but they behave deceptively. Researcher Campbell said that to understand why they are called fraudsters, the question is why do they distrust everyone?
Never think of yourself as selfish: These types of selfish people never think of themselves as selfish. He never even wants or tries to understand himself as selfish. Researcher Kriegen said that although his classmates left after finding evidence of selfishness in him, he did not acknowledge himself as a selfish person. Rather, he says I'm fine, everything is fine, but why is everyone leaving me?
Admitting mistakes: Selfish people never admit their mistakes. They never want to take responsibility for any of their work. Does the guy next to you do that?
Positive decision: Do you talk about negative or neutral issues most of the time? Isn't it special to make positive decisions? Selfish people do it. It is better not to have a relationship with them.
Peak self-esteem: This type of selfish people always try to keep their status high. Researcher Twins says they always want to have a high self-esteem and never feel insecure. Campbell said such selfish people seem very confident.
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