There was a time when I was an 11-year-old little girl. I live in Punjab/ India and in India, parents teach every girl for adjusting to every situation. I am also one of them. When I was an 11-year-old girl, my parents started to misbehave with me. They said," I have a boyfriend". But at that time, I could not understand these things. By the time, I have grown up now in 2017, I turn 16 years and at that time I studied at 12 standards. My all subject classes were taken online, so I demanded a smartphone from my parents.
But as I said, my dad doubted on me like other old-thinking parents. On that day it was such a big drama in my house when I demanded for buying the phone. Then I said to myself," it's okay, I will manage". After a few days, my dad bought a "Samsung J2" phone for me. I was shocked at this thing of my father, but this phase of my life, I can't forget it.
Do you know? Why I'm saying this because my dad didn't tolerate having the phone in my hand. Sometimes he hid the phone without telling me. I used to find out my phone where my phone goes, just now I saw my phone on this table, so immediately where can my phone go? I was crying loudly about my dad's behavior toward me. I thought, I wish I am a boy, then my father treats well with me. It took more than 4 years, then I took a stand for myself.
I started to ignore the misbehaving of my dad. After graduation, I searched for some online jobs. To my luck, I got some opportunities from International companies, but I didn't tell my dad or even my mother. I started to earn money in $. One day, my dad came to know about this from one of my friends. Then my dad asked me, "why you didn't tell us". I replied that I am the same girl that you misbehaved with her since her childhood. You snatched the phone from my hand many times, how can you expect from me to tell you anything about it ?
Nowadays, I am earning USD/$, just because of that smartphone that you hid from me for an uncountable time. At that time, my father realized the behavior that he used to treat me.
Today 5 years passed, and I don't talk to my dad, because a child is like a blank paper where parents print respect, values, and so on. As a result, they will receive the same output as they printed on children. So every parent should write a good thing in on children's soft-minded. In the end, I want to say, please don't try to hurt the inner software (heart) of children. Once parents lose their respect in front of their children, then never will come back.
I am just crying while writing my own story.
Thank you so much for reading,
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