Friends are extremely important for everyone. Whether it is a toddler, a teenager, a middle-aged person or an old person – everyone needs good friends around to live life to the fullest. During childhood, friendship helps in making us understand and develop the habit of sharing and caring. Small kids develop friendship faster and enjoy the company of their friends. They play and learn together. Friends are important for their proper growth and development. As teenagers, friends become all the more important for us. We go through numerous emotional, physical and mental changes during our teenage. Many of the problems faced during this age cannot be discussed with our parents and other family members. However, we are quite comfortable sharing these with our friends. Having good friends who can listen to our issues and provide us support and guidance are indeed a blessing during this age. We have all heard about midlife crisis. More and more people these days are suffering from this problem. Their family, job, kids and almost everyone and everything around begins to appear as a burden to them at this age. Having good friends around at this time can help in bringing about positivity amid this emotional upheaval. Friends are equally important during old age. With the growing nuclear family system, couples are left alone during their old age. If they have friends around, their life remains joyful and interesting instead of becoming dull. True friends are extremely supportive of each other. They support one another at various levels. They help in bringing out the best in each other by extending help when it comes to studies and other activities. My friends are always ready to share their notes with me whenever I miss out any class. This is a great help for me. They also act as an emotional support. Whenever I am down emotionally, I turn to my best friend. She knows how to calm me and support me at such a time. Good friends are also our best guides. They are there to guide us at every step. Whenever I need advice regarding handling my relationships, managing my studies or participating in other activities, my friends are there to guide me. They are also there to guide me whenever I break down emotionally. They help me look at the positives in life and shun the negativity. If you have even one good friend in life, you will know what I mean. Among other things, I cherish my friends for extending emotional support. There are numerous instances in life when we get emotional and just want to talk our heart out to somebody. There are many things that we cannot share with our parents and siblings for the fear of hurting them or invoking their anger. This is when we can turn to our friends. Good friends are always there to listen to you endlessly. They are there for you during your difficult times when you have an emotional outburst. Sometimes, all we need is someone who can listen to us without passing any judgement and forming any opinions about us. This type of comfort level is only found in friends. They listen to us and help us get over that emotional phase. I remember the times when I have an argument with my mother or sister or get a scolding from my father or teacher for some reason, it becomes very difficult for me to concentrate on my studies until the things resolve. All I keep thinking about is that I should not have said or done things that led to such a situation. I almost break emotionally and go on a guilt trip. These are the times when I need my friends the most. I turn to them for advice to get things sorted. At times, their advice works, at times it doesn’t. However, just venting out my feelings in front of them can make me feel much better. I know that I have someone whom I can fall back on whenever I am faced with an emotional situation. They may or may not be able to alter the situation, however, at least they help me overcome that guilty feeling by reminding me that I am just a human being and that I do not have to be too harsh on myself.
Conclusions
l am lucky I have some really amazing friends around. They are my pillar of strength and as important to me as my family. Without them, my life would have been extremely dull.
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