How do you view failure?
Do you see it as a bad thing you do not want to associate with, or do you see it as a good thing? Most people in the world do not like to fail.
Fear of failure is the main reason why more than 80% of the world's population is unprepared to change their circumstances. Why are people so afraid of failure? The reason for this is because people do not understand the variability involved in success and failure.
Everything we do in life has the right way to do it and the wrong way to do it. If we do it in the right way, we will achieve success. Needless to say, if we did it wrong, we would not succeed.
Understanding this is important because it sets the stage for failure and removes the fear that surrounds it.
When a person who does not understand this variation encounters a temporary failure, he stops thinking he is wrong or that he will not succeed. But is this really the case? Does the fact that you did not come for the first time mean that you are not good enough? Does that mean you will never succeed? Not at all! It means he has NOT FOUND THE RIGHT WAY!
Now what do you do next? You go back and try to find out where you went wrong. Then try again, this time using a different method. If this does not work, go back and look at everything you have done so far. Talk to successful people who have made it in this area. Think of something you could give up and try again.
Whatever you do, don't give up. Why do you need to do this? Because, "All failures, all troubles and every heartache, carry the seeds of equal or greater profit", says the author and adviser to many great people, Napoleon Hill. Failure contains the seeds of victory and victory.
Failure to teach you what works and what doesn't. When you learn the reasons for your failure and learn from it, you will find the key to your success. The great inventor Thomas Edison knew this fact better than anyone else. It took Edison, 8000 trials to make Edison's battery work better? He then quoted the famous saying, "At least we know, 8000 things that do not work".
You have to be the same. Every successful person has had to overcome a temporary defeat at some point. Know this! You have not really failed until you ACCEPT the defeat. Do you feel sorry for those who get success easily? Don't do it! Success achieved despite previous failures is far more enjoyable than it could be otherwise.
Those who are successful in this way know the way to success. They are not afraid to lose what they have because they have learned how to succeed. Those who find success easily do not know the road.
They arrived so quickly that they did not bother to look around. Let me use the following analogy to clarify. Take two boys to the same place, with this difference. One flew by plane, but the other came by car, with fewer accidents on the road.
If you take the two boys back to their place and ask them to find a way to their destination, who do you think will remember the road better in the future? Certainly the guy who had a few distractions and wasted some time on the road, because he had a chance to look around.
Temporary defeat should no longer be an obstacle. You have a lot of hidden talents, so start working on achieving your dreams. Don't worry about failing. Failure is a friend because it contains the seeds of success.
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