Why compare ourselves to others

Depression, anxiety, high blood pressure, headache, and stress are considered to be the most common symptoms our body experiences. But why did they happen. For example, it is well known that when we think too much about something, we get into stress, and especially, that stress turns into a headache or high blood pressure. But this is not entirely true. On the other hand, comparisons with others is probably the answer. It is well-known, that high blood pressure and diabetes eats a person slowly from inside, if not treated properly. The same thing happens when we begin to compare ourselves with other people, and make it a habit. This happens not only to women but also to men. When we drink a cup of tea or coffee, besides a window of our house or a café, and we see a beautiful car parked next to our old car, we often begin to think, after how much time I will be able to buy a new car. It's not wrong to think that way at all, but most people, take it seriously, and gets into stress. This behavior is not limited to brand  cars only, but it does occur in many things, for example watches, mobiles, bikes, clothing, jewelry, houses, locations of houses, men's and women's appearances, gadgets, and many other countless things. This may seem normal, and it certainly is. But my friends, taking it very seriously, and deep inside us, will have a negative effect on our health. And yes, there is a great deal of pressure on us of our relatives, our friends, and sometimes even our own family, especially when they say something to taunt us just for enjoyment, or something that goes straight into our hearts, like an arrow. Guys, please be patient, this is a very delicate time. Either you will control your emotions, as you should or, you will explode. Don't you know that whenever someone throws something to others, one day it will come back to them? Believe me, that's absolutely true. Seventy percent of people are concerned about what our relatives and friends say about them. But my dear friends, are you sure those people are not depressed at all, they are not jealous? Are those people angels? No, they suffer the same way you do. Then why spend our precious time, thinking about what they think of us. Have you ever wondered why, people living in rural or mountainous areas, experience less stress and depression, as compared with people living in developed cities with modern and HIFI lifestyle. The main answer is that they do not have time. They get up early in the morning, and often do all the work physically, and buy time they go back to their homes, they are tired. They spend more time with their families and enjoys a better sleep. God created us that way. If we, we begin to compare ourselves with others, who have more than us, one day we will be a victim of stress, high blood pressure, headaches, depression, anxiety etc. But if we are thankful to God, for what we have with us right now, our lives will be easier and happier. It's just like innocent children, who don't bother with such nonsense, that what people think about. They just want to play with the toys they have. And they are always happy. Don't put the burden on your shoulders, don't try to take ever matter into your own hands, leave it to God. It may seem difficult my friends, but trust me, it is not.