• STOP COLOURISM
From the beginning leave everybody you can watch this racism in your family and relatives. If you are a dark skin lady, then you are not beautiful, and your comparison will be with every person whose complexion is fair to you.
These questions were always raised to her mom & dad - Is that your child? From where do you adopt her? She is so black (in Hindi kaali) no one is going to marry her etc. But never realized the pain of that woman.
We always say, " just love or accept the way you are," but when she is trying to love herself, she started accepting herself, then people who have a small mindset pulled her legs and threw her into a question world, where she is confused if she did a crime to come in this world? She started hating herself, and we all know that it's essential to accept yourself; this is the first thing we have to do before anything. If we can't accept ourselves, then we can't have the power to do anything. The website link is given below there; you can find out some related stories around the world.
https://www.glamour.com/story/black-beauty-around-the-world
• SKIN TONE IS NOT A CRIME
Her journey begins where she tries to use different kinds of fairness cream (the most popular fairness cream in India is fair & lovely). If she can't be fair herself before marriage, she will be rejected. So now it's become essential to have fair skin, but you know what, "the biggest enemy of a woman is always a woman." If the men of the groom's house accept her, the women of his house will reject her that she is not fair, so she is not beautiful. Links are given below. Tap and check to know more about colorism facts.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2010/nov/18/women-own-worst-enemies-study
Nowadays, everybody wants to look good, but we don't understand that looking good doesn't mean you should have fair skin.
Even in research, it is found that dusky skin tone is the most attractive skin tone. So if you have dusky skin, you have great attractive skin amongst all of those who wanted to let you down every time.
• PERSONALITY
If your complexion is fair but doesn't have a personality, then I don't think it's worth anything. Be confident with whatever you have. I would say focus on your goals instead of trying to get fair. Your skin tone will not give you food or money; for this, you have to work hard. Be an honest person, love and help everyone, and don't care whether they say good about you or not. God has a great plan for you. So focus on good things and be happy.
We have seen that many people are only fair in skin complexion but have no talent and personality. So you can call them useless, but many are those who have a dark skin complexion, doing very well in their lives. If you have one of that mentality, then change it right now. Many models, actors, and businesswomen have dusky skin color but earning very high that you can't even imagine.
Black women are the prettiest ones, so trust me, you are the luckiest woman if you are one of those. Don't be ashamed of yourself. It's the right time to accept your complexion and show the world that you are an amazing person.
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