Women are a balancing act 'don't eat too much, don't eat too little, don't be fat, don't be skinny. Oh god! Do you ever stop eating? Oh wait, do you ever eat? There are not so well concealed looks of concern. Don't be loud, don't be so quiet. You should have a voice in society; leave the talking to the big boys only! If you want something or want to defend yourself speak up! No-no when it's your turn. Ugh! She never shuts up; it's obnoxious. Have you ever heard her talk? I don't even know how her voice sounds like. Make sure your skirt is long enough, but not too long but not too short, understood?
Don't make yourself too available, but you don't have to look like a lost person on this planet. Show off what you got, but if you do it, it's your fault if anything happens to you, if anything happens to you which is wrong, then it's your fault if someone assaults you, it's your fault because you were wearing a short dress maybe, 'but wait, have you ever noticed that whatever wrong takes place whether it be an assault or anything wrong which should not happen or not have happened is not because of the dressing which is a woman carrying?
How is any boy look at you if you wear that? Do you even live in our society? Do you even know the norms? You should follow the morals and ethics which society wants you to follow. God, have you seen her? She's been banged by every guy in the school she has met.
Be smart but not too smart. Do you know boys like smarter girls in our society but can't stand if a woman knows more than them? Play dumb! Oh wait, not that dumb, you idiot, you have to be mature too, you are a woman who should understand her responsibilities of her family, your kids, your husband, everything. You don't have to behave like a nerd, understood? Girls don't belong to classrooms. They have a family to take care of.
Do you want a well-paying job? Go and study have that degree, but you won't do a job after getting married because you have a responsibility on your head.
Do what you love, wear what you want, but you won't be allowed to do whatever you want to without permission, and also, you can only wear that mini skirt in the boundary of your house. You are not allowed to carry it out.
Be yourself, unless it goes against what we say....." first, the women have her own family, which she has to follow. She gets married to a man whose family becomes her priority. Still, there is no self individual life that a woman can enjoy, where she can live without any boundaries, where no one has control over her life, she can do whatever she wants to," can anyone relate to this? I guess every woman who is reading this might have felt something.
Huh! Do you love to do your hair and makeup? Great you are good to go! Ready for marriage when a sudden age hits up? Great, it's approved!
Do you love video games or guns? Oh wait! you are a liar; you are pretending as if you are cool. Don't you know you are a girl? Be that only no need to cross that boundary; you're mistaken.
A question to a society out there, why do only women face this harsh thing in society and criticism?
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