Who are You? "The Rudest Book Ever"

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"The Rudest Book Ever" is written by a famous YouTuber Shwetabh Gangwar. He is problem solver  The book "The Rudest Book Ever" consist of most problems people are overburdened with.

The author claims that this book will make you rethink everything you have been taught. This book consist of Insanely practical ideas to free your mind from all dirt.

The author dedicated this book to the two people he admires most, his mother and his wife. They are the one who he is today.

Who are you?

The First Chapter of this book consist of you  where you are a product with hope attached to it. And if this product has more and better the choices means he is better product compared to others.

 But, to be a product a person is not born ready, person has to be made ready, person is emotional in nature, he must learn how to learn. But, this learning is all about absorption from environment, which is 99% emotional.

But the author says that emotional responses we learn are mostly learned from our surroundings mostly parents and this emotional responses are garbage teacher because these are developed mostly in adolescence or childhood where our emotional intelligence is not so good.

Author say we are idiots, still we all know that we are not born idiots because we choose to be idiot. And this idiotic nature is acquired from our absorption from childhood, and we are not taught "How to Think" instead we are taught "What to Think".

What to think means, take a group of people who have strict belief system, strict ideologies and strict doctrines on morality these type of people teach 'what to think' system.

There are many differences between 'How to Think' people and 'What to Think' people. Generally 'How to Think' people are more open-minded to new ideas where they filter, question every thing and don't follow an ideology. They can easily abandon ideas without second thought.

Whereas in case of 'What to Think' people they follow a strict ideology do not question it because it brings the feeling of familiarity and with it comes comfort.

How to think people hear about everyone's perspective and make out their own solution, in other case what to think people tend to incline over ready-made solution and then suffer about it later because this solution can be unreliable.

Now let's go to the root of the problem that is parenting. Author perspective in the book is such that most parent are dumb when it comes to parenting because people have babies, so the baby can grow up to fulfil the unfulfilled dreams of either of the parents.

And when this babies grow up, they do everything by factual learning. Factual learnings are what author said about absorption, means it is basically what we can call "What to Think" people because these learnings appear factual too as you have absorbed it from childhood even though they may be unnecessary.

This factual learnings are based on fear and ignorance. And once these facts are strongly embedded in someone's mind then they became its avid defender and next step is that these people find similar ones and from a group and start to follow strict ideology.

"The Rudest Book Ever" also focuses on that there is bad notion more aged a person, more wise he is. It is just children are aged. And it's not that every elder person than you has figured out about life. The only thing we can do is to gather perspectives and make a solution out of them.

Now in conclusion, we can conclude that in this world there is no such a good teacher it's just you are for you and, you have to learn way of "How to Think". There is one life, and you are free to think there is no such need to limit the mind with "What to Think"

 

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Hello world, Me from India pursuing my carrier in chemical engineering form a reputed college named Laxminarayan Institute of Technology. I wanted to do something extra hence I started writing articles about whatever is in my mind