Which is better love or arranged marriage?

 Arranged marriage is better than a love marriage

 The most convincing reason that proves arranged marriages is better than Love marriages would be Statistics! In most cases, couples who had an arranged marriage are more understanding towards each other.

 For

•  In an arranged marriage, the first few years of the marriage are spent in knowing and understanding the person. There is a sense and demand of spending more time with each other.
•  In a love marriage, before the marriage, the couple shares a very different level of understanding. This understanding when tied to social obligations expected once married, is difficult to obey.
•  It is easy to adjust with the partner in an arranged marriage as compared to a love marriage. This is because in a love marriage things may often be taken for granted.
•  Since the partners have never met before, in an arranged marriage, they care more about each other's needs.
•  Arranged marriages help resolves domestic issues faster. There is a sense of fear of losing the partner.
•  For some unforeseen reason, the marriage does not work; many people will support more.
•  In most cases, love marriages force the couple to stay away from family. This leaves them with no choice but to tackle their problems.

 Against

•  In today’s busy lives no one has the time to understand each other after marriage. Arranged marriage, most of the time works on compromises. In a love marriage, they were in love even before the marriage and hence compromises are less.
•  In an arranged marriage, social obligations can get frustrating at times.
•  Love married couples learn how to become independent since most of the time they are separated and hence can tackle their problems.
•  A comfort level has already been developed between the couple.
•  Expectations from parents are less since most of the time the decision of marrying is usually initiated by the couple.
•  Whether it is love or arranged, trust, understanding, and commitment are what drive towards a successful marriage.
   
  Understanding is necessary
   
  Understanding is necessary between couples. if you do love marriage or arrange marriage in both cases. first of all the family of the couple should be noble it is like a basic root. if the couple will be well educated they will perform good behavior they will understand the family affair's in a deep sense and they will both try to compromise in every kind of matter and most important that they will respect their family.
• Arranged marriage is better than a love marriage
   
   The parents do not take care after the love marriage because that living person feels #other relatives help to not take.

• Arranged Marriage Vs Love Marriage
   
  Arranged marriages are not always bad.
  
  Does love last longer in arranged marriages?
  
   Another factor that contributes to the success of arranged marriages is the fact that matchmaking is fairly objective in terms of ensuring that the bride and the groom are well-matched in economic and social standing. Invariably, people falling in love also happen to choose partners with a similar personality, background, and attitude!
  
   Dr. Robert Epstein from Harvard has studied the subject of arranged marriages for eight years, which focused on arranged marriage practices among Indian, Pakistani, and Orthodox Jewish communities. Here is an extract from The Daily Mail UK that talks about the findings of Dr. Robert Epstein.
  
   He has interviewed more than 100 couples in arranged marriages to assess their strength of feeling and studied his findings against more than 30 years of research into love in Western and arranged marriages.
  
   His work suggests that feelings of love in love matches begin to fade by as much as a half in 18 months, whereas the love in arranged marriages tends to grow gradually, surpassing the love in unarranged marriages at about the five-year mark.
  
   Ten years on, the affection felt by those in arranged marriages is typically twice as strong.
  
   Dr. Epstein believes this is because Westerners leave their love lives to chance, or fate, often confusing love with lust, whereas those in other cultures look for more than just passion.
  
   I love this quote from Dr. Epstein - "The idea is we must not leave our love lives to chance. We plan our education, our careers, and our finances, but we’re still uncomfortable with the idea that we should plan our love lives. I do not advocate arranged marriages, but I think a lot can be learned from them.
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   I Believe in Choice
  
   I believe in the strengths of the arranged marriage process, namely the commitment and the involvement of the families in ensuring a successful match. However, I do not endorse forced marriages and the concept of "husband is God" no matter what he does. According to the 2014 UNFPA Survey, as women's education levels increase in countries like India, the proportion of women meeting their husbands before marriage is increasing. This does not necessarily mean love marriages but rather indicates free choice in selecting a husband. I believe this is a good sign.
  
    I recently started a company called www.jodilogik.com just to provide an opportunity for young men and women to exercise choice and not base their marriages (even when arranged) just on what parents might consider important.
•  Neither do I prefer love nor arranged I just wanted to have a successful marriage, according to me both love and arrange marriage is risky, in love marriage we can't exactly say that how the person was before, will be having the same thinking as after the marriage...both marriages requires trust, understanding, and commitment.
•  love marriage vs arrange marriage
   According to me, a love marriage is better than arrange marriage because before marriage both couples knowing to each other which means "Understanding". It gives you the freedom to take any action in your life. There is a certain bonding to each other that didn't create any kind of misunderstanding. So love says made for each other.
•  Love Marriage is Better Than Arrange Marriage
   In my Point of view, a love marriage is best. In a love marriage, we Can select the best Partner for our life, We can understand each other fully before getting married. But in arranged Marriage, It's difficult to select a better life partner, because after marriage only they can understand each other. Moreover, Arrange marriage demands, a dowry. In love, marriage is a benefit. Love marriage Wouldnt expect any dowry, they expect only love til their life end.
  Love marriage gives us the confidence to survive our life without anyone's help. They can tackle our problems themself easily. The main thing in love marriage is, that it cant see the caste at all. But in Arrange Marriage it expects the caste, status, and Assets. But a love marriage expects only a good life partner. It gives self-confidence, and how to manage difficult situations. Compared with arrange marriage love is best on all sides.
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