1. What would we do without humor? How would we enjoy talks with others if we did not use humor to invite a smile or a laugh? And how would we manage the times when we feel sad & alone.
2. With humor, we lighten up each day. And we find common ground with others. We build a healthy relationship with others by knowing what to say and what helps and what hinders a conversation. Humour after takes us to the edge of uncertainty when we exaggerate, or tease others to make our point.
3. When humor is Successful, we build trust & cooperation. We discover that we are not alone, we learnt to accept our mistakes & we look for the good in others & in ourselves. Most importantly, we create common ground. However, when we lose our sense of humor, we often get critical or defensive, and we often get critical of ourselves for what was said and how it was said.
4. Humour is an essential skill needed to communicate well with others. A few well-chosen words get the attention of others and make a serious point without their getting defensive, whether we prefer to be the centre of attention or shy & and quiet. Humour can be adjusted to suit our personality.
5. The challenge for everyone is to become more aware of how to add humor and avoid it. Too much, like too much spice, often annoys others. Humor that is perceived as insensitive often leads others to shut down or become argumentive. But when we each maintain our sense of humour, we look for the good in others & in ourselves. To ensure that others are welcomed by others, we need to combine our humor with speaking clearly and listening effectively.
6. Have you ever noticed that successful individuals often use self-deprecating humor to humble themselves without putting themselves down? Do you already have some things that you say to diffuse tension? Words like " At times like this is my uncle used to say" can help the conversation to become less confrontational . Humor helps us to lighten up each day and to find common ground with others.
7. We lose our humour when we often get critical or often get defensive and often get critical for was said. Humour is not the best tool to resolve a conflict. We discover that we are not alone, we learnt to accept our mistakes and we look for the good in others and in our mistakes, Sense of humor plays a very important role in our life. We create common ground, however when we lose our sense of humour we often get critical or defensive and we often get critical of ourselves for what was said and how it was said.
8. Humour is perceived as insensitive often leads others to shut down or become argumentive, but when we each maintain our sense of humor, we look for the good in others and ourselves. To ensure that we are welcomed by others, we need to combine our humour with speaking clearly.
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