A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN CRYING IN PAIN OF LOSING SOMEONE YOU LOVE, A SMALL KID HAPPILY PLAYING, GIGGLING, WATCHING VIDEOS ON MOBILE WITHOUT KNOWING WHATS HAPPENING. A CROWD OF PEOPLE, MIGHT BE A PARENT, CHILD, FRIEND, PARTNER OR OTHER RELATIVES DISCUSSING AND EXPERIENCING VERY DIFFICULT EMOTIONS, FEELING OF GUILT OR REGRET, SAD MOMENTS, EMPTINESS, SOME EVEN FIGHT FOR THEIR RIGHTS AND FORMALITIES ON FINAL CREMATION AND MOST OF THEM FIND IT DIFFICULT TO ACCEPT THAT THE PERSON IS REALLY NOT WITH THEM TO SHARE DAILY LIFE.
YOU WILL BE WONDERING WHATS HAPPENING, HEY! THAT BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS MY WIFE, INNOCENT KID IS MY PRINCESS AND THE CROWD FULL OF PEOPLE ARE EITHER MY RELATIVES, FRIENDS, WELL WISHERS, COLLEGUES OR SO, ALL GATHERED THERE FOR BEREAVEMENT. YOU FIND YOURSELF LYING LIFELESS.
WHAT AM I NOW?! OH GOD, MY SOUL FREE IN THE AIR. I CAN’T TALK TO MY LIFE PARTNER, I CAN’T HUG NOR CONSOLE HER, I CAN’T EMBRACE MY KID, PLAY WITH HER AND SING HER, HER FAVORITE RHYMES. I AM A MERE SPECTATOR WHO WONT BE ABLE TO SUPPORT MY PARENTS, JUST WATCHING THEM CARRY ON THEIR DAILY ROUTINE WITHOUT ANY SUPPORT. I CANT CONTINUE MY RUN TO EARN FOR MY FAMILY. A HEART-BREAKING SITUATION FOR ME NOW.
THANK GOD I HAVE SAVED ENOUGH FOR MY FAMILY FOR THEIR FUTURE, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I AM HAPPY THAT I HAVE DONE MY PART IN FULFILLING MY FAMILY REQUIREMENT. TILL DATE I HAVENT SPENT A MINUTE FOR MY HAPPINESS INSTEAD RUNNING NON-STOP TO SAVE MONEY AS TO SETTLE MY FAMILY.
A COUPLE OF DAYS PASSED NOW, HEY WATS HAPPENING, MY WIFE IS ENJOYING A COMEDY ON THE TELEVISION, MY KID IS ATTENDING HER SCHOOL, MY PARENTS IN THEIR DAILY ROUTINE, ALL MY RELATIONS BACK TO THEIR WORK. MY ABSENCE NOT IMPACTING ANY ONE??????!!!! THEY DON’T EVEN HAVE TIME TO REMEMBER ME. ARE THEY MY SOUL MATES AND RELATIVES, I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS!!!!!!!
IS THIS LIFE???? FOR WHICH I HAVE LOST MY COLURFUL DAYS STRECTCHING WORK, SACRIFICING ALL MY HAPPINESS. I SACRIFICED DAYS, MISSED TIME, OUTINGS WITH MY FAMILY. EVEN LOST CLOSE HAPPY MOMENTS WITH THEM. I HAVENT SPENT DAYS WITH MY PARENTS ON THEIR MEDICAL EMERGENCIES. NOT EVEN SCHOOL ADMISSION AND MEETINGS OF MY KIDS AT THEIR SCHOOL.
IS THAT THE REASON PEOPLE DON’T REMEMBER ME AND STOPPED THINKING ABOUTME. COULD IT BE THIS – WHERE THEY ONLY BEHIND MY MONEY, NOW MY BANK BALANCE…. MIGHT BE THEY COULD HAVE MISSED ME IF I COULD HAVE ENJOYED MY DAYS WITH THEM WHEN EVER THEY ARE IN NEED OF MY COMPANY. HAVE I MISSED ALL THE HAPPY MOMENTS BUSY AT WORK? A BIG QUESTION NOW KICKS UP IN MY MIND…………………………………
MOST OF THE PEOPLES MIND SET IS THIS. PEOPLE NEED THEM TO BE REMEMBERED FOR EVER. THEY SPEND MOST OF THE DAYS EARNING, EARNING, EARNING AND LOOSING ALL THE HAPPINESS OF LIFE. JUST SAVINGS ALONE WILL NOT BRING HAPPINESS TO FAMILY. OUR FAMILY EXPECTS PHYSICAL PRESENCE WHICH WILL GIVE THEM HAPPINESS., THOUGH MONEY IS A PART IN LIFE. MOST OF THE SEPARATED COUPLES LACK UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN THEM DUE TO ABSENCE OF PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HAPPINESS.
STRIKING A BALANCE BETWEEN OFFICIAL AND PERSONAL ROUTINE BRINGS UP HAPPINESS AND LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WHICH WILL RESULT IN REMEMBERANCE AND VALUE OF OUR LIVELY HOOD IN THIS WORLD.
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