When you feel like you have a mountain of problems in front of you, think carefully and find your root problem. For example, suppose you are unemployed. Then the next thoughts usually come to your mind. Oh my god, My girlfriends have a job. They got married, they took cars. I'm not anywhere yet. Mom is screaming. If I had a job, I probably wouldn't have heard this. Growing old but not a job. I don't have any skills to get a good job. My education is not complete. Money is needed, but not a job. I love a girl, but how to ask her? How can that girl say yes to me when I don't have a job? My brothers and sisters are not stable either. They need my help. But I can't help them. I feel so helpless. When will this state end! And so on.
Considering all the above, one may feel that there is a mountain of difficulties in one's life. But if you think about it, only one answer can solve all the problems. The answer is to get a "job" in the example above.
Once the problem is known, it can be remedied. Once you know the problem, make a plan to fix it. Make a list of the obstacles that may stand in the way of solving that problem.
Considering the above example, lack of education or lack of useful skills, lack of work experience can be obstacles. What can be the solution?
In that case, decide which field you want to work in. Acquire the skills needed for that. Find out all the ways you can get help. No work experience? See if anyone is offering an internship. Apply for an online internship. Prepare for the interview. Find interview questions. Watch a youtube video. Take a class. In short, attack the problem from all sides. You will gradually succeed.
Of course, you can sometimes feel very helpless while doing this now. Feelings of loneliness may arise. Feeling we have 'Run out of gas' emotionally. In this case, take the support of friends. Open your mind to them. Spend time with your family. Read a good book.Meditate.Stay away from all negative things and people. If that negativity is coming from people close to you, then for some time, turn the eardrums and the eardrums to stone. When you succeed, those same people will make you happy. Contemplate this notion as you interact with others. Watch the * motivational * video on youtube. And be confident that I will find a way out of this situation. In fact, tell yourself that if anyone in the whole world has the ability to succeed in this situation, it is me. When we talk about our problems, we forget to take stock of what we have.
A man should make himself so strong that before writing the same destiny, God Himself should ask him to say, what kind of crisis will we send you in this life?
People are living in horrible conditions. Someone has lost an arm in an accident; someone has lost a leg; someone's children have abandoned their parents in old age. Some people have the illusion of a two-course meal.
* The answer is not too big *
* In short; *
Identify the problem
Decide to overcome it.
List the problems that come up to solve the problem and plan solutions to overcome those problems.
* Good luck to you. *
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