As our country is developing very fastly. Every human being wants to get success very soon, wants to get rich, wants to get married. They wanted all things to do very soon. Our young generation is very patientless. So, why they are legging behind in relationships matters?
Honestly speaking, when I was in a school. My juniors have their girlfriend or boyfriend. And literally, they are just 12 or 14 years old. And also not they have one boyfriend or one girlfriend, they have many at one time. I was so shock when I am seeing them talking like 'don't speak like kids', I mean seriously. They are also just kids. When I was of theirs age I didn't even know about mobile phone. And now these kids have their own Instagram ID. And bitterly, their parents allow them to do so. My cousin sister, who is only 15-years-old, have her own social media handle. And her mother also allow her to do so.
Anyways I think I am going out of my topic. I will talk about this small kid relationships later. But now I am talking about relationships.
First, we talk about school relationships. In schools, many girls have a male friend. And like to boys are also have female friend. And they don't even know when they started like each other. So, at first I am totally against of it. Because school is for enjoying with friends, for studies. Not for girlfriend or boyfriend time. But if you make any boyfriend or girlfriend. First, you do is don't give them first priority. Your first priority is always your parents and your career. And most importantly, some boys and girls lost their friends just because their boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't like them. Kid listen, it's just an attraction nothing else. Don't do anything at your school age, at least when are not 18-years-old. When they started hurting you, just leave it. None can love you as your parents do.
Second, most important. After 18, when we are in college. Listen, relationships are not bad or dangerous. It's just you found a right or a wrong person. When you find a right person, you don't have any complaints. In fact, you both make your career with each other. But if you are reading this, you are definitely in a problem with your relationship.
First, I talk about boys. They are first who eagerly wanted to be in a relationship. It's my experience, otherwise now girls also started approaching boys.
When a boy came in a relationship, he gets totally evovle in it. Give their whole time to that girl. Not doing anything, just thinking about that girl whole day. And this obvious, because they are in a first stage of relationship. But boys, when a girl started to give you attention. What happens to you? You started ignoring them. Girls are shy, when you approach them they just need to understand the relationship, the love which you feel for her. But when she understands, starting to trust. They suddenly remember that they also have a life.
Sometimes girls, you also take advantage of a innocent boy.
Here are some points which you keep in mind :
1 Don't get involved too early. I see some people get to involve too early, which hurts them. Because your partner started thinking that you are becoming too cheesy for them.
2 Give priority to career first. I am not saying that love is not important. In fact, if they love you, they will never stop you to make your career.
3 Both side should have to work in a relationship.
4 Never ever lie to your parents for them.
5 Don't cut off with any of your friend just because of them.
6 If you are getting hurt, don't waste your time on them.
7 If something is wrong, first talk to your partner. Tell them that what is bothering you. And after this, they will not want to understand. Just leave. No matters how much it hurts, just leave and spent time with such people who actually cared about you.
8 Never ever share your private photos. If your partner actually loves you. They love your soul, not body.
9 If in starting, you are getting any red sign. Don't ignore them.
10 Never share your password with your partner. If you are not doing anything wrong, nothing can afraid you.
11 Never share your happy moments with people because at present none wants to see anyone happy.
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