Husband gets angry, the wife should not sleep" *
If your husband is angry, you should not fall asleep until he is pleased with you.
Yes!
Shari'ah requires that if the husband is angry, the wife should please her husband before going to bed and please him. According to the meaning of a hadith, if a husband gets mad with his wife and falls asleep, the curse of the angels falls on her all night long.
See what a stern promise has come, but I have to write with great regret that the majority of our women, not all of them, I am talking about the majority, that the majority, despite knowing the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), are wrong with their husbands By arguing like this, she sighs calmly, frustrated and angry.
It doesn't matter that my virtual god is sleeping angry with me. It does not occur that my husband is angry with me, and Allah and His Messenger are also mad at me. No.
On the contrary, it is thought that the husband will come on his own and convince me, even if it is the husband's fault, but the status that God has given to the husband is the wife despite all this. It makes her want to apologize to her husband and ask for prayers from him ???
Women say that the husband has made a mistake. Now he will come and pray for us and celebrate us. Astaghfirullah,
my sisters, are these the works of good Muslim women?
Those who think that our virtual god himself should come and apologize to us, apologize and persuade us, for which it was even said that if my Shari'ah had commanded prostration, he would have commanded women to marry their husbands. Prostrate
Leave me alone. What am I writing? Honestly, think, are these the works of good women?
I mean, all day long, in the scorching heat, he kept burning outside for his wife and children, rotting, stumbling from door to door, listening to the abuse of officers on the job, scolding, and so on. Are spread out, And even if the husband comes to celebrate on his own, she shakes his hand, pushes him badly, removes him immediately. Is this how a virtual god is treated? Think honestly, are these the works of sensible women ???
A woman came to the Messenger of Allah and said, "O Messenger of Allah, I am getting married. What right does my husband have over me?"
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If boils appear on your husband's body, dirty water, i.e., pus, accumulates in it, and even if you clean the spots by licking tea with your tongue, you have not paid your husband's due.
A wife is a gift for the husband, a skill that turns the husband's pain into comfort, becomes a source of peace and tranquility for the husband, becomes a source of comfort, a source of comfort brings smiles on the face. If the husband is angry, it is as if he is about to die. If the husband is angry, it is as if he is about to hold his breath. If the husband is angry, then the anguish is like a fish without water.
These are, in fact, signs of a well-trained, well-informed, sensible wife.
Well, in a husband and wife, crying and celebrating is the beauty of this relationship.
But this grievance should not be allowed so long that the turn leads to a big quarrel. If the husband is at fault, the husband should apologize. If the wife is at fault, the wife should apologize. If the couple is in a closed room, no one is bigger or smaller than mutual apologies. But no one sleeps in anger, and it is the husband's fault, the husband is not apologizing, he is not persuading his wife, it doesn't matter, the wife should persuade herself, don't come to Tussle, no, it's not my fault, I will not convince, by God. Homes are ruined because of it.
Let me tell you a beautiful hadith.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
If one's husband is angry, then the woman in Paradise is the one who holds her husband's hand and says, "By Allah, I will not sleep until you are pleased with me."
Praise be to Allah. What a lovely thing my Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said.
In a small act, a woman is being made entitled to paradise for not letting her husband sleep in anger.
It also means the world's benefit that the husband is also happy, the husband is also satisfied, and the full enjoyment of heaven in the eternal hereafter.
So, my sisters, it is now up to you whether you want to get angels by angering your husband or convincing your husband to be entitled to heaven.
May the Almighty grant success in action. (Happy married life)
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