What question should you ask yourself before marrying in love?

What question should you ask yourself before marrying in love?

Now a day’s people are coming closer together because of technological advancement. Children’s and teenagers are always in contact with each other for purpose of their school/college education. Youngsters and adults spend a long time with each other during working at their job places. If they are not in school/collages or offices, they can also be in touch due to Mobile and Social media Platforms. The points of telling this entire are, there is the possibility that two persons can be fall in love. After spending a particular time period, some of the couples make the decision of the wedding.

Some live a happy life by getting married but some have their lives completely ruined. If you made an analysis, you can avoid further complications. Here we have made some questions that definitely help you.

1) Who will benefit and who will suffer? If you, your lover and your family are happy after you get married, definitely move on. You or your lover or you both are happy, but your family will be sad. Then you must reconsider your decision.

2) What will you get and what is to be lost? To live life better you should have financial freedom, you have a good source of income, well-furnished house, luxurious car, Latest mobile and other gadgets and a lot other than our basic needs that is food, shelter and house. We need our family and community support also. If it all stays stable or grows, definitely move. But if you lose a lot from this then you must reconsider your decision.

3) Why I am getting married? This is such an important question, why am I turning a love affair into a marriage, is it because of innocent love? Or to maintain continuous physical relations? Or due to fear? The answer to all such questions must be found within us? If it is due to an innocent love, you can move forward only if you get a satisfactory answer to questions number 1 and 2, otherwise, you may have to face problems in life. If it is to maintain continuous physical contact. we need to understand that this is just part of our life but not complete life. You have more to do than this. There are many needs and responsibilities that you have to fulfil in your life. If you are afraid of your lover. You feel pressure regarding marriage. You have to find a way through discussion, if necessary, consult an expert.

4) What will be the end? Marriage is a social contract, you cannot change it suddenly, otherwise, your life, the lives of your children and your family will be affected. If you are progressing after marriage, your wealth and asset, source of income increase, your family life are satisfactory, your parents and other family members are still happy. Then there is no doubt that the decision you have made for marriage was absolutely correct. You will have a happy family.

On other hand, after marriage, you will be going back in life. You may face so many problems; your family life may be ruined. Your income is declined; your family support will be running out. Your entire life will be unhappy; can that be called a happy life? In such a case you take the correct decision for both of you.

I firmly believe in love, I am not even against love marriage. Here I just want to say make the correct decision and move on. Your correct decisions make you happy.