It feels like only yesterday when we welcomed 2021 with mixed emotions. The pandemic’s second wave was in the making, and vaccinations were still getting manufactured. Our homes were our sanctuaries and also our offices. All these lifestyle changes that happened overnight turned our lives upside down. They changed our thoughts, opinions, and our habits.
Now we are at the same place where we started 2021. The emergence of a new Covid-19 variant has again put us on alert. This time, however, our tomorrow will depend on us, on what we choose to do today. For this reason, 2022 is not just another year, but an opportunity to come out stronger than ever. To unlearn old habits and make space for new ones that can help us grow and become better individuals—it’s a new chapter for everyone.
So, what’s the best way to welcome 2022? By learning what not to do this year. Let’s take a closer look at the habits we need to leave behind as we step into a new year.
Not listening to your heart
We all had big plans and aspirations when the year 2020 was on the horizon. Who would have thought that in a matter of days, life as we know it will change forever? Students, working professionals, house makers, everyone had to put the brakes on their plans. Nothing changed in 2021 as the second wave washed away all hope for normalcy. In these two years, we wondered about the same thing, when will it end?
With 2022 at the door and rigorous vaccination drives in play, we thought the end was closer than ever before. But the rise of Omicron has forced us to rethink everything once again. But this time, we need to listen to our hearts and not be consumed by our fears. We need to find ways to pursue our aspirations and dreams that we kept on hold for two long years. The skills we aimed to learn, the goals we longed to accomplish, it’s time to listen to our hearts and open a new chapter in our lives.
Just sticking to your job
Other than wishing for the pandemic to end, if there is one thing we have done more of, is work. We spent the little time we had either binge-watching shows on Netflix or catching up with friends. But overall, it was a stressful year for everyone. According to a study by Oracle, “the COVID-19 pandemic has created the most stressful year in history and negatively affected the mental health of 78 percent of the global workforce.”
Life before the pandemic wasn’t like this. Along with work, people had their pet projects too, some hobbies and routines, which kept them healthy and satisfied. In 2022, we need to do more than just work. Yes, we need to work to pay for bills, but what we do outside our jobs is also crucial for our growth and happiness. So, don’t just stick to your job, and find something that intrigues you as well. Something worth your time and efforts. This approach to life can enable us to discover our passion, and if we keep up with it, our true calling as well.
Comparing yourself with others
The comparison trap can be deep and scary. When you fall into it, it’s difficult to find your way back to light. While waiting for the pandemic to end, social media had become our window to the outside world. We spent more and more time browsing and scrolling in the past two years—to be precise, the usage of social media and while doing so, we often compare ourselves with others. The thing about comparison is it never makes one feel good about themselves. Mostly, it evokes negative emotions that can lead to lower self-esteem, resentment, and in worst cases, depression too.
We should ask ourselves if the comparison has ever helped us in any way. It only makes things worse. But the good news is, one can escape the trap of comparison with their sheer conviction. As 2022 is coming close, let’s make a decision to never compare ourselves with anyone and start the new year with self-love and confidence.
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