You don’t get the love you deserve in life, you get the love you accept.
I don’t know you, I don’t know him— but I do know that we all came from com
Not to be vulgar, but it’s important to remember that if humans didn’t have this “call to life”, to have date, then the human race would be screwed from a lacking of screwing.
So many men will try to make love to you, but only a few can make a life with you.
Now to answer your question…
Monogamy gets a bad rap in our culture of hookups, but look around humans like to have “favorite” things… from favorite socks, shoes, cars, music and food.
It’s nice to have something you know, and know you like, it’s very comforting. Like comfort food.
So he likely feels comfortable with you, because you’re a valuable lady… but if you keep giving yourself for free don’t expect him to pay top dollar for it.
I think you’re worth that top dollar love, and if he’s not willing to pay, I promise other men are.
One man’s “no” is another man’s “HELL YES!”
You can tell him that you only want to have date with guys you’re in a committed relationship with.
If he doesn’t want that, remember that what you feel as rejection is just misspelled redirection.
It’s not easy, but high standards will protect you from low quality relationships.
Nope, he wants the benefits and loves how you go to any lengths to get him to love you back.
I am sorry to have to say this, but he will never ever get into a serious relationship with you. Good chance he has more girlfriends like you. And loves to see how his girlfriends bent backwards and forward just to please him.
Firstly, he is your boyfriend, so he has no right to ask you to sleep with him without being in relationship with you unless you want the same, but you are not willing as it reflects from the question itself.
Second thing is that he, being completely shameless, asked you to sleep with him but no relationship, then that's not going to happen as you won't be ready to have “just dating stuff” with someone you can't trust for loving you and caring for you. Now, comes the “basic tactics of a guy” that I mentioned in the very beginning, he is trying his best to play with your mind so that it is compelled to believe that he still has some care and love for you and you, being trying to get things back to normal, will get manipulated by his words that he doesn't want to hurt you, and he will get the only thing (date) he wants from you.
(Why I mentioned you being trying to get things back to normal is because if you didn't have any feelings for him anymore, then you would have directly said NO to him instead of thinking about this proposal by him, and you would have rather given him a proper reply yourself instead of being tensed and stressed about his proposal.)
Last but not the least, I am trying to say is that he doesn't love you anymore, neither he cares for you, all he wants is your bad and wants to satisfy the “Devil of date” that's residing inside him.
I hope you get the point I am trying to convey and wouldn't let him have the control over you, you should try to move on by engaging yourself in a lot of much other stuff which surely will provide you the inner peace that you are lacking of right now.
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