How much giggles your relationship
What is the fun of life without jokes, laughter and jokes? And without these, the mutual relationship can only be monotonous. For a happy relationship, it is necessary that one of the husband and wife is expert in the art of laughing. It is normal not to understand or laugh along with your spouse's jokes at times. But, if you are unable to tolerate your partner's way of joking at all, then be sure that both of you are going to have a lot of trouble in keeping your relationship happy. This can sour your relationship and become a permanent cause of quarrels.
How compatible are you two?
If you are eager to know how much coordination is there between your husband and wife in terms of laughter and jokes, then take part in this test and identify this aspect of the relationship:
1. Do you have a lot of fun when you are together?
a. yes b. no
2. Either one of the two always tries to humiliate the other person, even in jest?back
a. yes b. no
3. Do you laugh with your spouse, or do you laugh at your spouse?
With A. over B.
4. Do you both laugh to criticize each other-use jokes?
a. yes b. no
5. You both like comedy movies and comedy watcher shows?
a. Yes b. no
6. Do you both laugh at the same jokes?
a. yes b. no
7. Do you feel insulted by your partner's jokes, does it?
a. yes b. no
8. Does your husband make fun of you in front of outsiders? Do you fly?
a. yes b. no
9. Does your husband use humor to get himself or both of you out of difficult situations? Do you use
a. yes b. no
When jokes become trouble
1 The husband always tightens his teeth even in jokes, but the intention of the wife's joke is always right. When the way of joking between husband and wife is different, then they do not understand each other easily. In such a situation, it often becomes difficult to tolerate and understand the joke of the person in front, which affects the relationship.
2 If the partner jokes on such topics which the person in front does not like, then it is also a serious problem for a happy relationship. Often some people laugh and joke especially to humiliate the person in front. If one of the husband and wife has such a habit, then it can prove to be a serious problem.
3 If one of the husband and wife is doing bad things to the other person by taking the help of jokes, then this is also not good for the 'goodness' of the relationship. Actually, it is just a way to mentally harass the person in front. Somewhere, you are not thinking that you are avoiding doing evil to your partner in this way, but the truth is that this habit of yours can make your partner feel worse.
If you are facing this type of situation in your relationship, then it is better to have a frank talk with your partner than to laugh heartily with your partner. Tell them that their way of laughing, and joking is increasing your problem, and they need to bring necessary changes in their nature.
Result
If you answered 'K' to most of the questions, it means that you have a very good sense of humor. It is good and your relationship flourishes with this. Whereas, if you have answered 'B' to most of the questions, then you need to talk about this topic with your partner. Explain to them that their way of joking makes you uncomfortable, and she feels humiliated and needs to change this side of her nature.
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