This may be one of the purest words anyone has ever heard. Without the feeling called love, we will all be like animals. Showing love to other people is one of the most important duties of each of us. Because of love, many great problems facing humanity have ended. Love is everywhere. One can survive physically without love, but it is impossible for one to survive emotionally or mentally without loving others and being loved by others.
Love in the family
The family is the first place where people experience love for the first time in their lives. It is when our parents start loving us, from the moment they hear the good news about our birth from the hospital. Home is also the place where we first love our fellow man.
Love used as a weapon
But never be fooled by expressions of love. There are many fake people around who control others in the name of love. They are the people who do unwanted things to others and say it's because "I love you so you have to accept it". Do these people actually know what love is? There are many people who use love as a weapon. Let's look at many examples.
Love used as a weapon in the family
While family is the first place where we are loved for the first time, unfortunately this place can also be a place where people face many restrictions in the name of love. We can see many examples where parents do not allow their children to pursue their goals for various unwanted reasons. Without knowing what love is, this kind of people use love as a weapon to control their children. They use this one common sentence to make an obstacle in their child's decision. “If you love your family members, you will definitely do that. Usually, these kinds of sentences are used in families to suppress their child's decisions in the name of love. These people fail to understand that loving a person is completely different from controlling a person in the name of love.
Controlling your life partner in the name of love.
Now it is also one of the common situations faced by married couples everywhere. Both people, regardless of their gender, face these problems. I am not here to blame only one gender here. Both make the same mistake in the name of love. Controlling a partner's decision in the name of love, controlling a partner in the name of love, controlling partner rights in the name of love has become a legitimate act between couples.
Other places
There have also been many other places where people are controlled and manipulated in the name of love. For example, at school, a student is controlled by his friends in the name of love.
Conclusion
Now I am not here to say some impossible things like never love anyone or never trust the people you love etc. But people should clearly understand the difference between being loved or being controlled by others. If you feel that they are controlling you, talk to the person about it. Tell them clearly how much pain you have been through because of them. If they really love you, they will definitely understand your problems and your relationship can continue in the future. If you are still being controlled in the name of love, try to get out of this dominant relationship and seek proper psychological treatment if necessary.
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