In this article, IAM gonna explain about the five love languages. Through this five love languages, we are expressing and expecting love towards our mate. It outlines five general ways to that partners express and experience love, which Chapman called 'love languages'. Let's get into the topic,

 The five love languages!! 

We all gave and receive love in five different ways. They are 

1. Words of affirmation 
2. Acts of service 
3. Receiving gifts 
4. Quality time 
5. Physical touch 

Words of affirmation 

When words of affirmation is your love language, words build you up. You thrive on spoken affection, praise, encouragement, and compliments. Harsh words and criticism can bother you for a long time. 

Acts of service 

Anything that your partner does willingly to ease your workload is a sign of love to you. You feel cared for when your partner vacuums before you get to it or makes your breakfast as a surprise. On the other hand, broken promises and laziness can make you feel unimportant. 

Receiving gifts 

When you speak this love language, a thoughtful gift shows to you that you are special. In contrast, generic gifts and forgotten special events have the opposite effects. This love language is not materialistic -it could be as simple as receiving your 'favourite' snack after a bad day. It's all depend on person. 

Quality time 

To you, nothing says you're loved like undivided attention. When your partner is truly present (and not looking at their phone), it makes you feel important. Failure to actively listen or long periods without one-on-one time can make you feel unloved. 

Physical touch 

Holding hands, kisses, hugs and other touches are your preferred way to show and receive love. Appropriate touches convey warmth and safety, while Physical neglect can drive a wedge between you and your partner. 

How love languages can improve your relationship 

Most of has preferred one or two love languages -often different than our significant other's. If you express your love through your preferred love language, the chances are that it goes unnoticed by your partner. 

Say that your love language is gifts, and you often surprise your partner with thoughtful gifts. How does it make you feel when they just have a quick look at your thoughtful presents? Meanwhile, your partner hardly values your gifts but appreciate acts of service. It would mean the world to them if you did chores around the house instead of buying gifts. Is your partner feeling loved? 

Learning to speak your partner's love language can drastically strengthen your relationship. You can understand the  love languages of your partner  on the 5 love languages to improve your relationship and make it strong. 

These five love languages are not only for romantic love relationship. But was also applicable for any kind of relationship from children to teen. 

Jay Shetty's 6 steps to understanding love languages 

1. Know your love language first 
2. Know your partner's love language 
3. Know your parents 
4. Go deeper 
5. Okay isn't enough 
6. Money can't buy love  

These five love languages can be applicable for any kind of relationships.

 For example 

If you want to know your child much better, just observe them. What kind of response they were showing to you, if their love language is word of affirmation, they love to be appreciated by words to their work. Like this, everyone had their own love languages, so we should observe them and give them what they actually like

This article will make you to better understand yourself and others. Hope you enjoyed...☺️