The art of conversation and its purpose in life:
Why do most people fail at conversation? Because they only talk to themselves and pay little attention to listening to others, others gradually start paying less attention to their words.
It is very important that we listen carefully to everyone's conversation. Even if they are talking uncontrollably, we should at least give them enough time to tell us their whole story. Never interrupt in between, but on the contrary, we should also take special care of their feelings and thoughts, and if they go for something good, then they should also be praised.
In order to be successful in conversation, one should never argue over small things, and at the same time, one should never try to show oneself to be more knowledgeable than others.
We should talk more or less seriously according to the nature and knowledge of the one who talks to us. If the person in front becomes silent on some subject and does not want to speak more, then we should not force him to answer.
We should keep our opinions in front of people with the utmost calmness and humility. It is not good to always talk about yourself and give your own example. We should avoid this fault because there is no other subject that bores more than talking to a man who always presents his own example.
We should not make any claims, and there should be no tendency to try to convince others or to show ourselves as more intelligent. Difficult or incomprehensible examples should not be used, but as far as possible, it should be tried to make the examples appropriate to the subject, short, and simple.
If our opinion is not inconsistent, then we should not hesitate to express it in front of anyone. But at the same time, attention should also be paid to the words of others.
You should not try to show yourself as the main person in the conversation, nor should you make any beautiful arguments immediately when they come to mind. If we go on talking too often and for too long on the same subject according to our own interests, we are sure to dissatisfy and bore our listeners.
No matter how beautiful your talk is, it is not necessary that every human being will like it. Special attention should be paid to the interests of the person we are talking to, his business, and his thoughts. Also, there is a time for everything. Talk should happen as per the time.
While conversing with a person, we should pay special attention to the place, time, and nature of the conversation.
Just as there is a way of speaking, similarly, there is an art to becoming silent at the right time. By being silent, we express our feelings of acceptance or rejection, respect or disrespect. Knowing the art of becoming silent on time in a few words, we can add beauty to the conversation.
Very few people are familiar with the art of conversation, and even those who are are often seen breaking its rules, so the safest way is to listen more carefully to others in conversation, speak less, and let no one else speak. Don't say such a thing, after which we have to repent.
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