What is love?

Love has so many forms as it can be shown to every living being. So it has also it's types. We call a love between friends as platonic whereas a love between couples are called as Eros. There were many forms in love but all form were unconditional. 

      But this generation has turned the word 'unconditional love' into being submissive, Tolerating the shits that were thrown into their face is called as  'unconditional love '. So I came across a interview from one of the famous director where he explained about 'unconditional love ' as promoting the violence.

               So what is unconditional love? There should be care, understanding, communication, and most importantly mutual respect should be there between a couple or in any relationship. They should be comfortable enough to share their worries and to share their miseries with each other. A relationship is called unconditional when they have a learn to cry in front of their partner and share their problems, insecurity with their partner without any discomfort. 

        Last but not least, you can't touch your partner however you want without their consent. Every relationship should have boundaries and should not make others uncomfortable by their advances. If he/she doesn't like your advances then you should stop. No means No always learn to take no as answer.

                     Nowadays movies are more interested in showing toxic musculinity. Toxic masculinity refers to a set of negative behaviors and attitudes certain men engage in to exhibit a misplaced sense of “manliness.”It arises from societal pressures for men to behave in a specific way, ultimately taken to a problematic extreme.  

           The problem is with this society which creates a perception of how a male should always be dominant and should be bread earner of the house and the women are limited to do only household chores. This is where the main problem arises. The society create a mould of how a male and female should act and behave and both person lose their own perception and originality of their own lives. 

           The irony is that we are blaming the peer pressure, social media influencer when the problem is with us within our society.