Dean Bevan is a 58-year-old British man who has spent most of his life working as a caregiver in a medical institution in the UK. Not long ago, Dean just retired. In the eyes of outsiders, Dean is a failure. He doesn't have much savings and has had two marriages that ended in failure.
Three years ago, after Dean divorced his second wife, he no longer wanted to marry other women.
Dean has two children, the eldest daughter is 20 years old this year, and the youngest son is also 17 years old. They have already left home to go to college.
In addition, after retirement, there was a long time of no place to spend every day, so Dean thought of finding some other partners for himself.
Three years ago, Dean bought a lifelike TPE love doll from a Japanese seller on a Dollshop shopping website.
Afterward, Dean made collecting TPE love dolls a hobby for the latter half of his life, and it became uncontrollable;
As of now, he has 12 TPE and silicone dolls made in this way that are realistic and expensive.
These love dolls are said to have come all the way from Japan and cost Dean thousands of pounds in retirement, but he still feels happy about it.
He spends a lot of time every day with these dumb dummies.
Dean gave different names to the 12 TPE love dolls, and each doll had a birthday. He would take turns celebrating the birthdays of the 12 dolls.
In addition to helping them change clothes, he will also learn various makeup videos on YouTube to make up and comb his dolls' hair.
Dean's daughter told reporters that she initially found her father's hobby difficult to accept,
But after a long time, she realized that nothing is more important than her father's mental health. With these love dolls, her father's retirement life becomes no longer lonely.
Thinking of these, the daughter can also understand the father's thoughts and actions.
I won't pretend that this is normal behavior, it's really crazy, but as I can see, these are just harmless interests
When I visit my father's house, I see Monica lying on the sofa watching TV, while Athena in the kitchen is making tea, and Sara upstairs is reading in bed. The house looks peaceful
Dean also stated that with the companionship of these TPE love dolls, he had never felt so happy. Moreover, the cost of these love dolls is also acceptable, and subsequent maintenance requires almost no cost.
It is reported that each of these beautifully designed TPE love dolls costs over 1400 pounds.
I have my own house without a loan, and I also have a pension and retirement benefits. I can fully afford my own expenses
Some people may find my hobby a bit creepy, but I feel very happy myself, and I haven't hurt anyone by doing these things
My reason tells me that such thoughts are foolish because they are just a pile of plastic and metal, but I quickly developed some other feelings about them, and I think these feelings have played a very protective role for me
I will give each of them a name, give them their own personality, and choose different clothes for them to wear
Every day I communicate with these dolls, and when I talk to someone for too long, I can feel that the other dolls are a bit jealous, so I apologize to them and gently comfort them
In addition to 12 TPE love dolls, Dean also has 4 silicone doll heads in his home,
He will often exchange heads and bodies with these dolls, but before doing so, he must first "communicate well" with these dolls and "seek their permission and apologize to them".
Dean's first doll was named Sarah. Three years ago, when he first brought her home, he no longer regarded Sarah as a simple toy a few hours later.
Sara is a short stature blonde love doll with a 30H cup and a large chest,
Although another 11 TPE love dolls were added one after another, Dean's affection for Sarah was the deepest,
Other dolls are usually displayed in different corners of the room at night, and only Sarah can share Dean's oversized three-person bed with him.
I must admit that when you wake up in the morning and see someone lying next to you with a beautiful face, it really makes people feel very happy
Dean has not had a date with another woman for three full years since his last divorce. He also holds an open attitude towards his future emotional life, but he will not give up his beloved Sarah for anyone.
If someone wants to date me, I won't refuse either, but if someone asks me to give up my Sara, then I definitely won't consider it
Dean will occasionally go to the discount area of the mall to choose clothes for these dolls, as their bodies are very slim, so they can often buy clothes that match their sizes in the discount area.
Dean often takes various photos to share online after dressing up these dolls.
Dean is not afraid to showcase his hobby to everyone and even openly shares his experience of collecting silicone dolls with others.
My neighbors are very interested in these dolls, so I invited them to my house as guests
Another time I took one of the dolls outside to take a photo, and when I came back, someone even started chatting up the doll sitting in the car. After seeing the doll and not responding, I asked, 'Why does the girl in your car look a bit strange?'
Dean's daughter can now understand his father's hobby: "Since his father retired, his social life has decreased significantly. Although playing with these dolls all day may seem strange, I can indeed feel that his mood has improved
My father used to be a night-shift caregiver. He has always loved taking care of people and bringing warmth to them. Caring for others is his instinct. If he were to stop doing all this after retirement, he would definitely find it very difficult to adapt
That's why these silicone dolls are particularly attractive to him, because when dressing up these dolls, gives her the feeling of taking care of others
In the beginning, I couldn't accept it very much. I would feel that my father's way of doing it caused me great embarrassment and made me unable to look up in front of others
But later on, I realized that I was an adult and his life didn't revolve around me. I didn't need to fully accept my father's hobbies
So two years ago, I completely accepted my father's little hobby, and my friends all know that I don't care about it.
When people ask me about this matter, my response is usually a chuckle because I also find it interesting, It won't hurt anyone, and it doesn't make people feel any psychological discomfort
My 17-year-old brother doesn't seem to fully understand yet, so when he comes to his father's house, he has to hide all these dolls
Dean once thought that he might have to spend his future life with these love dolls, but he didn't think it was much.
I have seen many couples who have been married for many years, and they live together without relying on language communication at all
Dean even thought about how to handle these TPE love dolls when he passed away.
After I die, I can be cremated and placed in a vase to bury Sarah and me together. Alternatively, I can also be buried with other girls.
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