What are the pains that girls suffer throughout their life?

What are the pains that girls suffer throughout their life?

Everyone considers the girl as the Lakshmi of their own house. Still, she is not treated like Lakshmi, from her birth till her last breath, she continues to suffer from the troubles, which is not spoken and is not even hidden; she continues to suffer pain throughout her life, which can not say in words, that girl gives up hope of living with everything.

The painful journey of that girl starts from her birth. If a new guest comes to the house, a girl comes out, then they do her last rites and decide the day of her death; this is the thinking of some people, where half the people live in the hope of having children and the remaining people who have a child is born to them thinking of erasing her.

Nearly 4.6 crore (45.8 million) females are 'missing' in Indian demography in 2020, mainly due to pre and post-birth sex selection practices stemming from son preference and gender inequality, a recently released United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) report has said. https://www.theweek.in/news/india/2020/07/01/about-46-crore-females-missing-in-india-due-to-son-preference-unfpa-report.html.

This girl's journey does not end there; she is yet to see more exploits of this world.

Does everyone think that their childhood would have been remembered, good or bad?

Everyone's childhood was memorable, sometimes with happiness and sometimes the pain hidden in their eyes makes their childhood even more memorable.

Even if there are social media everywhere, the voice has come out for the girls' safety; the girls will be saved outside, but who will save them in their own house? The evil eye is not only of the outsiders, but the animal's hunger is hidden in the heart of their loved ones. Those who can not be identified, those innocent heifers who become their prey, provoke them to take them to the corner; their painful voice is not heard by anyone.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathua_rape_case.

Sometimes they become silent due to the fear of that animal, and sometimes, their own family members silence them. Outside, girls are also not safe in their own home, with whom will they share their pain; they just have to walk in fear while stumbling like this.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIiGry20tiI.

Are girls safe in their youth? No.....

In India, acid attacks are at an all-time high and increasing every year, with 250–300 reported incidents every year, while the "The actual number could exceed 1,000, according to Acid Survivors' Trust International". Although acid attacks occur all over the world, this type of violence is most common in South Asia.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acid_attack.

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The feeling of that pain is only known to those who have gone through these things. The beauty of girls is the only thing in her world. If that disappears, she loses her hope of living; she is unable to show her face to anyone, she is afraid of coming out so that people do not see her with a strange look and the children would be scared after seeing them, that time the girls would not express their pain.

Youth does not end; the burden of responsibilities falls on them; parents feel that the child has grown up, now they should come out of their shade and hand it over to someone else. In today's time, parents have learned to make girls live independently. But half the people are still lost in their old thoughts.

Do you think that their life will become beautiful, it will be filled with happiness after marriage?

Lucky will be the girl whose husband loves her dearly, takes care of her and her happiness till the dying dam. This is the dream of every girl, but the dream is only a dream; many things cannot be turned into reality, here; as soon as the girl gets married, the rules and regulations of the husband begin to be followed, parents send dowry and send the girls away so that her husband keep her happy.

Twenty-one dowry deaths are reported across the country every day. The conviction rate, however, is less than 35 percent. The National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) states that in 2015, as many as 7,634 women died in the country due to dowry harassment.https://www.statista.com/statistics/632553/reported-dowry-death-cases-india/.

But that girl gets everything in exchange for love, like that man's anger, his rules don't go here, don't go there, don't talk to him, don't stay like that and some nonsense. Here the day does not pass by the husband's oppression; he has to go through the torture of his in-laws.

This means that whatever happens, the girls have to go through the trouble, the rivers fall from their eyes, and they have to suffer oppression. Now she gets happiness only from her children, who she has brought up with so many fights, her own dreams get attached to those children, she starts seeing herself in them, but what to do, this world drowns everyone. By burying the mother's love, her beloved is spoiled.

That woman sits in the hope that her children will give her all the happiness, but half are busy trying to get rid of them. They are engaged in sending them to the orphanage to get rid of them; some such people give a lot of oppression in the house and torment them for every single time's bread. Keep on suffering, that woman who never lived her life for herself had ruined herself for others, but she would have died even after being alive in this old age, seeing children's behavior, now she just starts asking for death.

Those hands who earlier used to raise for their children to ask for their good heath and wealth from god. There is only this regret in my heart, and I keep praying about why he sentenced her to this world. If sent, why did he send it as a girl? Had to give so many atrocities, why did he write her fate, to whom did she tell her pain? The one who listens is God, and he is probably angry with her who wrote such bad luck for her.

Should we curse our own life so that we are born as a girl? No...

Learn to live the life you have got, learn to live by saying that all these situations have happened with everyone in every corner of the world, but it is painful, we cannot even think of it, but we should learn to come out of it, we must make ourselves strong, have to fight for ourselves. One thing has to be remembered: you can ride your own life and not sacrifice happiness on someone else's trust.