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Meeting a young boy and girl in solitude by throwing dust in the eyes of their parents is called Dating and "Dating" in modern terms. This dating trend is most prevalent among young and adolescent boys and girls in our educational institutions (universities, colleges, even schools). These boys and girls leave home for their educational institutions, but instead of going there, they go on dates with their so-called lovers and girlfriends, and the family members have no doubts whatsoever.
The first few days of dating are spent in a park in the shade of trees or bushes where the young couple kisses in public and does very naughty things. There are three top parks for dating in Lahore: (1) Jinnah Garden, (2) Model Town Central Park, and (2) Race Course Park Sea view. When I went to Model Town Park, there were hundreds of young boys and girls on dates, some of them in college and school uniforms, a clear indication that they would study at home. Have come for
When I asked the security guards at the park about it, one of them said that the ticket for this park had been contracted for 10 million annually and we are strictly forbidden to do anything to the worst of it. Don't stop because these couples are stopped, then who will come here. A financier said that hundreds of school, college, and university students come here every day and do such dirty deeds that we Shame comes, but they are shamelessly engaged in their "love" in public. He said that we have seen many couples committing adultery in the bushes here. Did I ask: Don't girls forbid? He said that some girls provoke boys to do bad deeds, while some teenage girls are ashamed at first and forbid boys to do such things. But the boy brought her from so far away, and he would have fed her. If so, he does not live without fulfilling his lust.
The same can be seen in Jinnah Garden and Race Course Park. A few hills in Jinnah Garden are no less than a five-star hotel room for couples on a date as they have complete solitude here, and They are not afraid of anyone.
The second stage of dating is heartbreaking. Poor couples choose the house of a friend whose family has gone to a party, etc., while the rich choose most of the hotels and private guest houses in Jabra. Couples experience complete isolation, and then the couple establishes the relationship that the couple establishes after marriage. Establishing such a relationship before marriage is defined as "adultery" and is punishable in Islam. There are whips. It is also a punishable offense under Pakistani law.
The obvious disadvantages of dating are obvious to everyone, while one of the most devastating disadvantages is "blackmailing." The couple where they go on a date, the administration makes videos of them with hidden cameras. They blackmail. They demand money from boys and girls; they want sex with money. Both of them are forced to accept their demands out of fear of the police and their families.
Just a few years ago in Islamabad, Karachi, and a few other major cities in Pakistan, thousands of such couples who came to date in the cabins of internet clubs for dating had come up with an immoral video that caused a stir. Committed suicide and destroyed hundreds of homes. Similarly, on the occasion of Valentine's Day last year, hundreds of couples who went on a date at an ice cream parlor in Karachi were not only sold at very high prices but also blackmailed by the management.
The other side of blackmailing is that the boys make videos of their girlfriends on their own. Some boys sell these videos to dirty sites for a good amount of money, and in this way, it is auctioned all over the world in the blink of an eye. Some boys blackmail the girls with these videos to collect money and fulfill their lust. Hundreds of such incidents have been reported in the media so far, and the number of unreported incidents is in the thousands.
In this regard, there is only one incident that will make your hair stand on end. A ninth-grade student of a school in Multan became friends with a boy on her mobile phone. She made a program to go on a date and in a park. The boy's friends made a video of him. A few days later, the boy showed the video and invited him to his friend's house to make him a target of his lust and also made a video of him. A few days later, when the boy's heart was filled with the girl, he gave the video to his friends. Then his friends took turns to lust after this innocent girl. Look at the extreme brutality that the fifteen-year-old girl has six consecutive For a month, she was the target of the lust of twenty people, but for the honor of her parents, she endured in silence. After that, the beasts showed the video to the girl's father and demanded Rs 300,000. When the father informed the police, three of the accused were arrested. You would think that all this is the result of dating only once and now that girl. And what excuse does his family have to live?
There are so many disadvantages of dating that anyone who thinks and considers other people's sisters and daughters as their sister and daughter trembles at the thought. My parents and siblings are requested to keep an eye on their sisters and daughters and check their mobile from time to time as this whole game of dating is played on the head of the mobile.
Girls are requested to get rid of the idea of dating in the circle of friendship and love of boys and remember the incident of a girl from Multan who fell prey to the lust of twenty people due to one date. Then it must be remembered that the girl is the biggest loser in dating because even if there is no blackmailing, the girl's honor goes to this dating.
Finally, I urge all young people to think about what they will do tomorrow before luring a girl into their false love, making her a target of their lust, blackmailing her, or uploading a video of her on the internet. Everyone should think about it !!!!! It can happen with sister and daughter too.
However, in our society, honors are not safe due to ignorance. But there are also men in the same society who keep themselves in the sun and overshadow the women of their house.
If anyone is offended by this truth, then sorry and salutations ...
This story is not just a story; it is happening nowadays.
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