We people always try to make our lives better and want to be happy. These are the things that stop you from thriving and affect your growth.
You don't take the initiative for your growth.
How will you get to know if this field, this path is yours, unless and until you don't try? If you are willing to transform yourself, irrespective of all those fears, pull you back, move a step ahead in your life, and live your life with contentment.
Though that one step is not enough, you have to go much beyond that with persistence with perseverance. But that one step might change your perspective. It will give you confidence because "you" choose that path.
Sometimes, it may happen you crumble, you may feel torn out, but this is secondary. Have patience. Talk with you close one regarding your situation. Choose your mentor, talk to them. Communication is the key.
You doubt yourself and your capabilities.
Yes, self-doubt is the only barrier that deprives you of initiating any task. It stops you from embracing yourself and your growth. It halts your peaceful life. Probably, you will find it difficult to grab new opportunities that come your way; meanwhile, what will you do, doubt yourself only?
All these questions like I don't look good. Is it (any work) good to go? Can I do this? I don't have these particular skills; how will I continue this? What if I fail? People, especially my relative, will make fun of me. What if people judge me? I think you may have experienced any of these questions till now. Right?
Learning to overcome is the only solution.
Make a diary entry regarding your fears, your habits, your thought process. What led you to doubt yourself? Talk to your close one; you only know better who is your friend and who is not. Start finding answers; you will need motivation. Could you do it?
When you are honest, it becomes a little easy.
You think you are alone and no one bothers.
You might have felt vacant even in a crowd. It feels like no one understands you. No one bothers what your perspective is. You feel left alone. Loneliness among the people kills. It causes deluding sorrow. Many people deal with the same dilemma.
What you can do is, be hopeful. Change your attitude towards looking at things. A positive approach makes your way easier.
You don't ask or seek what you want.
You must have encountered various questions in your life and their answers too. You ask for it, or you have figured it out on your own after a certain point.
A significant part is "how much are you excited to know their answer?". Everything around you is a big question. Sometimes, we leave things as they are; we do not interfere in them.
But unless and until you ask for it, you will not get clarity in your answers. Explore. Clarity is what we are looking for nowadays. Most importantly, you will get to know yourself also explore the unknown side of yours.
You always try to seek perfection.
"Perfection is a myth." No one is perfect. The truth is they are on the path to achieving it, irrespective of what comes in their way. Fear, criticism, hurdle, etc.
We people don't like criticism. And why do we? We want the best in everything, let's say, perfectionism in everything. Sometimes, what happens is, we couldn't open up, talk with people, we do not start something new (work), do not follow our passion, thinking we are not perfect. How can we confront them?
Would you mind unfurling this? Please don't push yourself too much so that it affects you terribly. Go with the flow. Give your 100% to your work.
What okay is transforming yourself day by day to get the best out of it? It is not okay to overestimate it and affect yourself with criticism.
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