To all those men who think it takes as much time to make a woman come as it does to make Maggi, let me break it to you that it is never the case.
And backing us now, apart from our unsatisfied intercourse experiences, is a scientific study that may have just figured out the average time it actually takes for a woman to come.
Guys, this is where you take down notes.
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A study that was published in The Journal Of intercourse Medicine, conducted by a team from India's Kadave Institute of Medical Sciences has apparently been the first to measure what we call ‘organic latency’, which translates into the gap between feeling aroused and finally climaxing.
And as it turns out, that time is 13 minutes and 25 seconds.
A total of 645 women took part in this study, from across 21 countries. All of these women in the sample size were in monogamous relationships - married or in serious long-term relationships.
A surprising part of this study was also the fact that one out of every six women who climaxed, didn’t actually do it through penetrative s e x. Infact, most women have time and again admitted that they feel more aroused and closer to coming when they’re being orally pleasured.
And for those who did end up having an ecstatic ending through penetrative s e x, nine out of ten women were able to do it when they were positioned on top.
Seems like this is when you start putting missionary on the back-burner and pick this as your default position, if you want your woman to really orgasm and not just fake it.
Women who would earlier fake orgasms either because they didn’t want to embarrass their partners or because they felt that they will never be able to achieve one, have also started to stop faking it any longer.
And if there is any way you want to make it as worthwhile for your partner as it is for you, the trick is to keep going for a minimum of 13 minutes, so you’re sure to have given her the kind of ‘hard time’ she desires!
How Long Does It Take Women to Climax During Intercourse?
S e x researchers have long been fascinated by women’s orgasms, but only a few studies have explored how long it takes women to climax. Recently, Indian investigators added to this small literature. What they found was ironic. Forget time to orgasm. The large majority of their participants never climaxed during intercourse.
This finding corroborates a large body of research showing that for women’s erotic fulfillment, two things hardly matter—the size of men’s erections and how long intercourse lasts. Female orgasms usually result from a combination of at least 20 minutes of direct, gentle, extended massage—by hand, tongue, or s e x toy—of women’s whole bodies followed by caresses focused on the genitals, especially on the visible clitoris
The Study
The Indian-led research team recruited 645 women, age 21 to 40, all involved in stable hetero intercourse relationships on average for seven years. Participants hailed from 20 countries, including India, Belgium, Malaysia, the U.K., the U.S., and the Netherlands. Two-thirds were married, one-third cohabitating.
The investigators asked the women to make love as usual, with one change. When they felt sufficiently warmed up to proceed from other play to intercourse, the researchers asked them to start their cell phone stopwatches and time how long it took them to work up to orgasm.
For those able to come during intercourse, it took six to 20 minutes, an average of 14 minutes.
But the study’s main finding rendered its time-to-orgasm focus largely irrelevant. Two-thirds of the women—69 percent—never climaxed solely from intercourse. This finding had nothing to do with the women’s age, education, income, marital status, relationship duration, or frequency of intercourse. During the eight-week study, two out of three did not orgasm during intercourse with their partners, period.
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