Many times it happens that such situations arise in your life. In which you feel that you are being insulted and many times it happens to you that someone has insulted you and you have no answer to it and you become silent or do something. Can't even speak.
However, after some time passes, you realize that how could you have replied to this? This would have made him realize his mistake.
Psychologist Kerry McBoom says that when someone misbehaves with you, the part of the brain that takes it as a joke stops working, and often in such a way that you would normally remain silent in the situation.
To avoid such awkward and unpleasant situations, you need to be mentally prepared.
In general technique it is said that whenever someone insults you, do not remain silent and tell the other person about his mistake in a low voice and make eye contact and ask the reason for it... This will make the other person realize his mistake and help him think. Will force you.
The usual technique often works but it does not leave much of an impact. Apart from this, there are many techniques using which you can get out of such situations. Today you are going to know about three of these best techniques in this article, so let's start and know about these best techniques.
Reaction techniques:-
All these techniques depend on the choice of words. You should choose good words and give a warning immediately so that even in a joking manner the respect of the other person is not hurt.
(1) This is foul:-
American therapist Anjita Robinson says that if someone misbehaves, then say 'this is foul'
Generally in sports, the provision of showing red or yellow card for making a mistake is called foul, that is, this word foul helps the person in front to realize or notice the mistake and often they also notice it after this.
American therapist Anjita Robinson narrates an incident where one of her patients went to a restaurant with her boyfriend and after some time, when the boyfriend misbehaved with her, her patient used the word foul, which her boyfriend understood. It was said that he was crossing the border.
American therapist Anjita Robinson says that it is a light word but it gives a clear message.
(2) Thank you, but do not accept unsolicited advice:
American therapist Anjita Robinson says about this technique that it often happens that elders put restrictions on clothes, eating habits etc.
Thank them with a smile and tell them that you do not need their unsolicited advice. This will make him realize that even though his intentions were good, you did not need his advice and he will take full care of this in the future.
(3) You are alright: -
Psychotherapist Melanie Williams of Baltimore says that 'You are alright', these are only four words in appearance but they have a great impact on someone.
If someone has said something hurtful to you and then he hears this phrase, he feels uncomfortable and looks at you strangely but the reaction is always positive.
So friends, these are some of the best techniques using which whenever someone insults you, you will not remain silent and will give such a reaction which will make them realize their mistake and in future they will not repeat this kind of thing with you and anyone else too. Will avoid behaving.
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