Let's face it; If you are looking for advice on marriage, you can spend DAYS researching online without writing down all available wedding advice.
But sadly, that is what most people in your situation are doing ... RESEARCH ... but never TAKE the ideas and ideas they are learning because they come up with “excuses” for why their situation is DIFFERENT.
Let me tell you… .your situation is DIFFERENT. And as much as MY marriage was… my “status” is NOT DEAD either ...
So why am I qualified to give you advice on marriage? Because I was able to save my marriage… by myself… after 27 years of fighting, chasing cars and fighting his way against my path.
Our marriage was a mess as it went on.
You see, I married my DENIAL. In fact, you would think we are from different planets when you compare our habits, values, priorities and attitudes ... and that is before you consider our gender differences oku .which brings me one of the best advice on marriage I can give you ...
1. LEARN “THE 5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE”
When I received this wonderful counsel on marriage, it really opened my eyes to see what really made my wife happy. Many times we wish our spouse would treat us in a certain way, but we never tell them what we want them to do!
Gary Chapman, author of the book, Five Living Languages, makes it easy for you to talk about what you need in your spouse to feel loved… and what they need from you!
When I found out what made my wife feel loved… I WAS shocked!
He wanted “acts of service” of all things! I thought that since I love the “words of assurance”… he would do it too!
I hated doing “service chores” (a.k.a. household chores, gardening and gardening) and that was why I did not meet her needs! I did not know what I was doing until I read this book.
... that reminds me ... here's another great wedding advice you should always remember ...
Many couples make the MOST MISTAKES of treating their spouses the way they WANT their spouse to treat them!
In other words, bribing your spouse with kisses and kisses will not make him or her want to hug you / kiss you too much if they really need YOU as a "service" such as rubbish or cleaning the house!
If you want to improve your marriage and make your spouse meet your needs, by meeting their FIRST, I highly recommend this book. You can find it at: http://www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com/gary.html
Now I have never seen anyone talk about this final advice on marriage, so listen carefully ...
2. YOU CANNOT IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE UNLESS YOU FEEL LIKE IT STARTED
Many people are looking for a happy marriage recipe, looking for a simple to-do list and then “looking at their list.”
But unfortunately, that is not how REAL marital life works. I can give you a long list of tips on marriage that can improve your relationship, but that list will not help you at all. If you are like most married couples, you will not make EVERYTHING about marriage… until you start to feel you want to do it FIRST.
Telling you to “go out and do something” to improve your marriage will NOT make a difference in your relationship when you are so angry with your spouse and you feel so bad that you can't even do it!
The key is to FEEL LIKE you did something good in your marriage… and do it.
Believe me; IT IS EASIER to do something good for your spouse when you feel confident about your marriage… than to “force yourself” to be the first to take a step toward a better marriage.
Now I know what you think. “How do I get started claiming a job well done? I'm so frustrated with my spouse now! "
Well, I'm glad you asked. I am giving you a FREE tutorial on “How to Overcome Your Negative Feelings… The Minute Time.” If you are interested, keep reading to start a small study right away…
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