Hello friends, today we are going to talk about communication skills or the art of conversation.

Today, with the help of this article, we will tell you some rules of conversation which if you adopt in your life, then believe me, your popularity among people will increase rapidly and people will start liking you fast, so let us know those rules.

But before that let us know what Communication Skills are.

Communication Skills

Communication means conversation, whether it is between two people or a group meeting, how you speak, how your gestures are used.

  Communication skill means that way of speaking by which you can easily make people understand your point, so let us now know the popular rules of conversation.
 

 Do not criticize / do not criticize

   Friends, this is the first and very important rule of conversation. Do not criticize anyone without any reason and if possible, do not criticize at all because no one likes a person who criticizes too much.
 
  One habit which is most commonly found among us is to give free advice to people, even if the other person does not want it from you, still we will definitely give him advice.
 
  I want to ask you, why are you wasting your time and the other person's time by giving unnecessary advice to someone?
  I tell you that do not give advice or criticize until the other person himself comes to you and says that brother, now you audit me and anyway
 
          "Whoever you go to improve more
            That's where your enemy will be."

Whenever you praise, do it in public/criticize in private.

Second rule of conversation.

whenever you praise, do it in front of everyone/criticize in private, that is, whenever you praise someone, you should do it in front of everyone so that the social status of that person is improved.

You can further enhance your appearance and this will also praise you because people will say, look, he always praises everyone and if possible, praise him behind people's back so that when other people hear this, they will say that this So look behind the back also, he praises people and whenever you criticize, do it in private so that that person does not get hurt socially or personally.

Whenever you criticize, suppress it with praise.

Friends, you can also call this rule as the sandwich rule, in this rule you act like a sandwich, just as in a sandwich, bread is applied on the top and bottom and cheese is applied in the middle, in the same way you too can criticize anyone. If you do so, put bread on the top and bottom of the praise and put cheese on the criticism in the middle so that the person in front does not feel bad.

Speak less/listen more.

We can also call this Communication Skills the Golden Rule of Communication Skills.

According to this rule, you should always speak less and listen more so that when you listen to someone, the person in front of you will feel that you are taking full interest in him and he will start liking you.

Anyway, you all know that the people who talk are less liked by the people and no one even pays any attention to their words.
Often people who speak less are listened to very carefully.

Here we have given you links of some books, by reading which you can further improve your communication skills. We have written this article about Basic or Communication Skills.
It has been taken from Ujjwal Patni you-tube channel, the link of this excellent video is also given below.