Friendship is the most important and deepest emotion of a relationship. Sometimes this relationship of friendship goes above blood relations. Even if you have a true friend in your life, then he will not let you break in the difficulties of life. He warns you before taking wrong decisions and saves you from troubles. His support for you in difficult times boosts your spirits. That's why a true friend is above all relationships. Many times in such a friendship, due to some small mistake, it gets sour. This sourness can also lead to the breakup of the relationship. Although true friendship is the same where when a mistake is made, the right situation is understood by talking to each other and if the mistake is forgivable, then the friendship should be forgiven by forgiving, but many times this understanding is not able to show friends and something is in their mind. Let's sit That is why it is important to always avoid making mistakes by showing a little caution in friendship. Mistakes that can easily lead to bitterness in this relationship include-
don't ignore
Don't ignore your true friend because of someone else. Whether it is your new friend made in school-college, new friend in colony or girlfriend-boyfriend. Remember your true friend is with you first of all. When you are completely cut off from an old relationship because of a new relationship, it is natural for someone to feel bad. This also raises the question whether your friendship till now was just a mean friendship, there was no stability on your part in it? Therefore, even while making new friends or new relationships, keep your old true friend connected. Never let him feel that his place is in your life after all. With this behavior, the friend will also understand the situation and give you full space and will also respect your new relationship.
keep money clear
Never bring money between friendship. Whether it is 10 rupees or 1000 rupees. Money often causes rifts in friendships. So keep the account of money very clear. Suppose you live in a hostel or are working away from home and suddenly someday you need some money. This situation can happen to anyone, but in such a situation it is most important to write down the account. It is important to be clear about how much money your friend helped with or how much you borrowed from him. You can also note it in your mobile phone. After this, pay the friend's money as soon as you get the first opportunity. If not at once, then pay it in two-three installments, but definitely pay it. People often forget money thinking that there are few but remember in what situation and how your friend helped you, even you do not know. So never take a loan. With this friendship will also be confirmed and trust will also remain.
don't believe what you hear
Be it a small matter or some big information, especially if it is related to you or your friend, then unless the friend himself tells you the truth, do not trust anyone else. Even if someone warns you, instead of breaking the friendship by believing it immediately, investigate the matter first. Let's say someone claims to be your true friend but is playing with your feelings. One of your well-wishers warns you about this. So thank that well wisher also and first find out the reality of this thing in your own way. If you find evidence of this to be true then ask a friend directly. If the friend explains his position by giving the right reasoning, then it means that he did not cheat with you, but someone was deliberately trying to break your friendship. Therefore, instead of blindly believing in any thing, first understand and know the matter. Your parents or family can best help you in this.
explain your plan
Sometimes you have a plan with family or relatives. On the same day, you have made a plan to go for a walk or go to the movie with your friend. So you can go to only one place. Try to continue the plan which is more important, but sometimes it happens that you have to postpone or cancel the plan with friends for family or relatives. This situation can happen to anyone. In such a situation, clear the whole situation to the friend in advance. If he is your true friend then he will understand this. Maybe sometimes such a situation happens with him also, then you can understand him and support him. Even if the plan is made suddenly, then at least send a message to the friend at the first leisure that you suddenly had to join that plan and you will soon meet the friend and tell everything.
don't support the wrong thing
From a friend's house you get a call from his parents that he is studying with you, isn't he? Whereas your friend has gone on outing with any of his group without informing the parents or is going towards some wrong company. In such a situation, the first duty of a good friend is to stop his friend. Never cooperate with your friend in hiding any activity that can put him and you in trouble. A friend's parents want information from you because they trust you and their child. In such a situation, by hiding any information, you can put your friendship and their trust in danger and also your friend. So avoid doing this. Apart from this, avoid supporting any other habit, which plays with your friend's health or life, and save your friend too. Whether it is a habit of any kind of intoxicant or stunts by driving fast on the roads.
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