Everyone wants to be an Interesting person, an attractive person, but someone is judge by their face and someone by their way of talking. But the most important thing is talent, and talent builds from hard work and smart work. So here are the top 7 ways that can improve your thinking ability when you meet new people.
1. Be a Story Teller person
One research had shown that the person who tells a good story seems very attractive to everyone.
Here are 8 ways that make you a better storyteller - Appropriate time and Audience, Hook to engage the listener, Keep it concise, Emotional element Highlightment, Do not Rush, Poke fun at yourself rather than others, Vary your rate of speech and volume, Ask listeners to Imagine
2. Ask Good Questions
Only keep telling a long tail story is not a good deal. Within your story, you had to ask questions like is anything seems confusing to you, or aren't you relating this story to your personal life. This would definitely make a healthy conversation.
Well-crafted questions can stimulate, guide, and draw out a good discussion. So here, you can check out the top 10 tips for asking good questions. Plan your questions, Know your purpose, and Don't interrupt.
3. Follow your Intrest
Be like an avid student and collector of information that you find interesting and excite you. Because when you feel excited and have an eagerness to exploit that interest, you definitely can't be stuck on something. The flow of information is important that comes from experiences, not just from theory.
And must remember is your opinion also matters on that topic of your interest.
4. Read a lot
Expose yourself to as many new stories and ideas as possible. A lot of people say that reading a book is the key to success.
But not everyone loves to read books, some people are interested in Audiobooks, and the rest loves video content because that's an easy job rather than starring a big giant book. And that's okay; at the end of the day, the thing that matters is the knowledge you gain.
People who read fiction were better at empathy and understanding others. This is based on reviews of the psychological effects of reading fiction.
5. Switch to different Crowd
You don't feel interested when you talk with others because you are spending time with those who don't appreciate you.
So please switch to the community who listens to you, who can relate their lifestyle with yours, who can understand your feelings, and your thoughts. Yes, it's a bit difficult to find these kinds of people, but it's not impossible. Challenge yourself to meet different peoples who share positive vibes.
6. Embrace your lifestyle
We all have a quirk, which means a weird kind of nature, but it's part of our lives. An interesting person unleashed their inner weirdness.
Dressing, speaking, and acting like everyone else is boring. We are not in a school; as we grew up, our minds and sense of humor also grow. So let's think beyond the expectations.
As I say, let's think beyond the expectations means it's not like you think exactly the opposite of what people think. We live in society, in apartments, in cities, in the country, in this world with all other human beings and animals. And we should have to follow the culture and nature, and the only thing we can do is add something to this cultural behavior that everyone loves.
7. Sense of Humour
Let's say if you are trying to impress a date, then research had figured out that more funny men are perceived by women, possibly because they seem more intelligent.
In some cases, been silent is not a great deal. You have to be active, be positive while talking or telling a story. A person is not judged by his face; their talent is judged as someone says that everyone is unique.
And most important, "don't judge a book by its cover."
So I would like to say that from the above 7 ways you will get to know some facts and figures about how to be an interesting person. But only being an interesting person is not a big deal, along with that you have to be a caring person. Must remember that Simphaty is not greater than Empathy.
One should have to adapt the ability to relate to the problems of someone else. Then only can you able to find the solutions.
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