1. The solution is with you: -
It's a one-time thing. An old man lived in a village. His white beard and hair gave the impression of divinity. He was considered to be the wisest person in the whole village. People would come to the elderly with their problems, to which they would suggest solutions. People often had the same problems. One such day, the whole village was surrounded by their problems.
He told a joke. Everyone laughed and laughed. Five minutes later he told the same joke again. This time some people laughed; some were left smiling. When he told the same joke for the third time. So not a single person laughed in the village but was surprised to see the old man. The old man smiled and said - When you can't laugh at the same jokes over and over again.
So why do you cry every day about the same problem? Why are you unnecessarily sad? Now the people who came with their problems had got the solution of their problems. They smiled and returned to their respective houses.
Lesson - Worrying about what is not in control will do nothing.
2. Remember the goodness: -
Two friends were passing through the desert. There was laughter and jokes going on in between. But suddenly the joke turned into an argument. Anger - A friend slaps another friend in anger. The one who got slapped started walking silently.
At one place, both stopped to take some rest. The slapped friend was silent. He was silently writing on the sand - Today my best friend slapped me. Another friend was watching him. But remained silent. The desert has come to an end. The two friends stopped at the mouth of a river. Both were taking a bath when the slapped friend started drowning.
Another friend grabbed her hand and pulled her out. A friend out of fear of death was writing on the stone after a while... Today my best friend saved my life. Another friend asked the reason. Received the answer When someone hurts us, then it should be written on the sand, which may be wiped away by the winds of forgiveness. When someone does good to you, it should be engraved on a stone, which no one can erase even if they want.
Lesson - Give importance to only those things which have meaning in life.
3. How to deal with problems? : -
After marriage, the daughter returned home. Started complaining to the father. Bid- She will not be able to bear this struggle of life. Father was listening calmly. Father was a cook by profession. They brought the daughter to the kitchen. And put 3 pots full of water on high flame.
When the water started boiling in all three pots, they put potatoes in one pot, eggs in the other, and coffee beans in the third. Without saying a word, he was silently listening to the daughter. The daughter was angry. I couldn't understand what the father was doing. She is voicing her grievances and they are silent. After twenty minutes the father turned off all the burners.
Take out the potatoes, eggs, and coffee and put them in a cup. Turning to the angry daughter, asked - what do you see? Daughter taunted and said - Potato, eggs, and coffee .... what else? Father explained - Look, the potato which was looking so hard earlier, how weak it has become in boiling water. The egg kept on protecting the inner part from the outer shell for as long as possible until it became hard on the inside. And look at the coffee. He just changed boiling water. Father said - suppose ... your problems are boiling water, now it decides - how will you behave - like potatoes ... or like coffee.
Lesson - How you respond to problems is what matters.
4. Why is struggle necessary? : -
A man was sitting in the garden. Suddenly a cocoon fell from the tree. The little butterfly was trying to come out of it. The man sat watching him for hours. He could not stop himself. He decided to help Title.
With small scissors kept nearby, he cut off a portion of the cocoon, so that the butterfly could easily come out. The butterfly came out, but undeveloped. without a fan. His back part was also swollen a bit. Now she could never fly.
Actually, that person did not think that struggle is also a process of life. He put an end to the struggle of the butterfly itself. And by doing so, he ruined the life of the butterfly forever. Struggle increases our strength. Our children are also like butterflies. You just see the struggles in their life, but do not end those struggles, otherwise, it will destroy the struggle ability of your children.
Learning - Struggle is also a part of life. That is what gives us completeness.
5. How to conquer anger? :-
There was a small child. Very angry One day the father gave him a bag full of nails to teach him a lesson. And said - whenever you get angry, take out a nail from it and put it in the front board. On the very first day, the child hammered 37 nails into the board. But gradually he learned to control his anger.
After a few weeks, he reached the father and said – today I did not need to hit a single nail. Now his father said - now cut a new job, on the day you do not get angry, take out a nail back from the board. One day the board got empty.
The son was happy and told this thing to the father. The father took him to the board and said - Look, the damage these nails have caused to this board. The same harm our anger causes to the person in front. Just as this board can never be healed now, similarly the damage caused by anger can never be compensated.
Lesson - Every start with anger ends with embarrassment
6. Golden House: -
A child lived in a farmhouse on a hill. Every day he went to graze the sheep, but every morning he did one thing - looking at another house away from the windows of his house. The windows of that house were golden. He would say - I will definitely go there. One day his father said - today I will go to feed the sheep, you stay at home.
The child was waiting for this day. As soon as his father left, he started towards that house of golden windows. On the go, he realized that the house he was thinking of was close enough. It was evening when we reached there through the mountains, the fields. But he did not see a house of golden windows, but an old house with broken windows. He knocked on the door of the house. A small child of the same age came outside.
The child curiously asked the other child - why have you seen a house with golden windows. Another child brought him in, to his window. As soon as the child saw them there, he was stunned. Doot was his home somewhere. Shining golden from the setting sun.
Lesson - What God has given to you is valuable. Don't compare.
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