Top 10 secrets of a women

Secret #1: Women have a code language

Yep, women have a special language that we men don’t understand.

A good example of this was shown at the latest Seduction Cinema event.

Seduction Cinema is an event run by AttractionGym in which shows footage of our coaches live and shows and tells you exactly how they interact with women.

One of the videos shows how Mathijs seduces a gorgeous girl at a club.

While Mathijs and this beauty are laughing and chatting together, a friend of this lady suddenly mixes herself in the conversation.

“Kangaroo?”

Asked the friend of the girl Mathijs was chatting up.

“No!” answered the girl… after which the friend leaves the conversation again.

All men who saw this footage were bewildered.

It is, of course, very random:

Mathijs is chatting up a cute girl, her friend suddenly asks “Kangaroo?”, the answer is “no,” and the friend leaves…

But in the end, this “kangaroo” interruption is not as random as it seems…

“Kangaroo” was code language for “do you need me to save you from this man?”

Because girlfriends look out for each other (more about this later on).

That’s why women make up code words they use when one of their friends needs to be “saved” from an annoying man.

Women use this kind of code language in countless situations…

This code language works so well because most men don’t know that women use these techniques, let alone what the code words mean.

Luckily, you are now in the know, dear reader.

So: if you’re talking with a cute lady and she suddenly says something weird and random to her friend…

… you are safe to assume that’s something they’re keeping secret from you.

Secret #2: What she says is not always what she means

She mumbles, “We really shouldn’t do this,” while I open the door of my house.

Even though she says this really shouldn’t be happening, her behavior is clearly saying something different.

She’s been rubbing up against me all evening, and her breathing is heavy from the excitement.

I know that this is what she wants.

When you gain a lot of experience with women, it becomes easier and easier to tell whether a woman is really saying what she means or not…

Because often… what she says is not what she means.

Pro tip:

A woman can also be testing you. This is another example we wrote about when a woman’s words and actions say different things.

Once you become better at seducing women, it’s definitely worth the read.

The reason for this is because the female brain is wired differently than the male brain.

Here’s what’s up:

The male brain works rationally and has a strong focus on the logic.

A man prefers to convey a message as short, clear, and direct as possible.

In contrast, the female brain functions more emotionally.

The female brain is focused on feelings and emotions.

This difference in communication is joked about by the famous marriage expert Mark Gungor:

Even though we can all have a big laugh about these differences in communication, they regularly cause a lot of misery.

One of the biggest reasons for men being hopeless with women is because they think that the female brain works the same as the male brain.

Therefore, the Average Andy tries to convince a woman to sleep with him using logic.

But a woman doesn’t want to hear logic. She wants to feel emotions.

The more strong and varying emotions she feels with you, the greater the chance that she will feel attracted to you.

(If you want to know more about this, read this article about what women want).

Pay attention, though:

Sometimes the “logical” part of her brain will be activated.

This happened in the example I gave above.

She said that it wasn’t a good idea to sleep with me (logic: she thinks it’s too soon, her friends might criticize her for that), but her emotions get the upper hand at the end (which caused her to be so aroused that she slept with me after all).

So remember that women sometimes say something that they don’t always mean exactly. This is because of the conflict between her emotions and logic.

But note:

Sometimes no really means no. NEVER become pushy or rude.

When you have a lot of experience with women, you’ll slowly start to understand when women really want something or not.

When you don’t have so much experience, you’ll have to pay closer attention to all her signals.

If she really says no, then sometimes it’s a definite no.

In that case, give her some space, create a relaxed vibe and try again later.

Secret #3: She doesn’t need a knight in shining armor

This female secret also has to do with the fact that women don’t always say what they truly mean.

Because…

When you ask a woman what she wants to have in a potential partner, she’ll often come up with quite the list:

He needs to be handsome.
He needs to be smart.
He needs to have a good sense of humor.
He needs to have a good job.
He needs to be a good cook.
He needs to be attentive.
He needs to be Mr. Perfect.
And so forth…

But don’t worry.

You don’t have to be Mr. Perfect.

I’m sure you’ve seen an absolute stunner walking with a guy who looks like Kermit the Frog.

This was absolutely one of the women who said she was looking for a totally perfect man…

But in the end, she’ll also settle for Kermit.

Look.

Many men think that you can only have success with women if you look like Ryan Gosling.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

As long as a man possesses specific, attractive masculine properties, she will fall for that man.

But then, of course, the big question is… what are the female attraction secrets?

In this article, you will learn the 10 masculine properties that will have women falling for you.

If this guy can do it:

… then so can you!

Secret #4: She enjoys sex more than you

“Men are always after sex.”
– Frequently stated by women all over the world.

I don’t deny that we men are sexual beings, but you can rest assured that women are just as sexual, if not more so.

I’ve met women who, from the outside, seemed like sweet, good girls…

… but as soon as they entered the bedroom… they seemed to transform into penis-obsessed sex monsters.

As I’ve said before:

She may be a princess on the streets but a freak in the sheets.

Listen up, partner,

Women absolutely love sex.

You can see that women love sex when you have perfect sex with a woman.

This point is also made well by comedian Louis CK:

Where a man makes a few grunting sounds, some women let themselves go completely.

They close their eyes, let their bodies go fully, and start to scream with pleasure…

… providing you do a good job, of course.

The greatest problem is that many men have no idea what they’re doing when it comes to sex.

Many men want to have sex but kind of suck at it (no pun intended) when push comes to shove.

For this reason, many women feel misunderstood and not satisfied, after which they’ll say things like ‘men only want sex.’

But if you know how to please a woman in bed fully…

… then, you can turn even the cutest, most innocent girl into a sex bomb.

If you want to know how to make women obsessed with sex with you, then read this article:

>> How to Please a Woman in Bed (Step-by-Step Guide)

Secret #5: Women bring each other down

I remember taking a woman home from a club back when I lived in the Hague.

We were supposedly going to make a nightly stroll along the beach (even though we both knew all too well the beach was miles away from the club)…

We took our “beach walk” through the cemented streets of the Hague, slowly making our way to my house.

“What are we going to do?” she asked curiously when I put my key in the lock.

She was new in The Hague.

So I told her this:

“Oh, you know what’s so cool about the Hague? There are these cool doors that are like crazy portals. If you walk through one of those doors, you come out on a completely different side of the city!”

She responded:

“Haha, so cool!” and followed me into my home.

You need to know this:

This woman was not dumb.

She had come from Russia to the Netherlands to study International Affairs at the University.

But still, she walks through the door of my home after telling her a bullshit story about cool door portals as if the Hague is some kind of science fiction city.

The reason she did this is simple:

She doesn’t want to be a slut.

Here’s the deal:

If you ask a woman you don’t know about sex, she’ll not respond positively in most cases.

And that’s logical: she doesn’t know you, and she doesn’t want to be a slut.

Because if she simply agrees to an offer like that and gets into bed with you, she’ll have a lot to explain to her friends.

Her friends (and society) will label her as “easy” or “a slut”.

Slut-shaming is horrible, but even today, it’s widespread amongst women.

More still: according to research in this TIME article, women slut-shame each other at least as often as men do.

Because women don’t want to seem “too easy,” they probably won’t want to go home with you purely to sleep with you.

In the story above, this woman could still always say to her friends:

“Oh, he told me some crazy story about door portals, and then we were suddenly in his house. It just happened.”

And that’s exactly what she wants.

A woman wants to feel like the sex “just happened” (even if it was already pronounced that it’s going to go down).

This is pure to protect themselves against slut-shaming.

In many female groups, one girl who has many one-night stands is often looked upon with suspicion…

This is a shame, but unfortunately, it’s just how it is.

So don’t become angry or frustrated if a woman won’t (immediately) sleep with you…

… because there are many (hidden) pairs of eyes who are judging them.

Secret #6: You aren’t her only one

Imagine:

You’ve been dating a nice woman for a while…

You share beautiful moments, you go on awesome dates, and it seems like what you’ve built up with her is truly unique…

Well… think again.

Chances are quite high that she’s seeing several other men.

Look,

Especially if you’re in the (early) dating phase with a woman, then I think the chances are small that you’re the only guy she’s seeing…

… especially if she’s a gorgeous woman.

And this isn’t so crazy.

Let’s face it; she’s hot.

This means that she’s desired by countless men, and she has many choices when it comes to other men.

Just for a laugh, have a go at swiping on the Tinder account of a hot woman…

You’ll see that pretty much everything you swipe right is a match.

In other words: there’s plenty of competition, mate.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you should start to panic.

As an attractive man, you’re not dependent on one specific woman.

You also have the right to date multiple women simultaneously.

I’d even highly recommend this to you because an attractive man lives in abundance.

Do you want to know more about how to build up a harem of multiple fuckbuddies?

Then read this article.

Secret #7: She won’t tell you her criticism

She looks at you straight in the eye…

She tells you what an amazing guy you are…

But behind your back…

Her friends get to hear a completely different side of the story.

“He never listens to me.”

“He’s not so good in bed.”

“He doesn’t seem to understand me.”

These are just a handful of statements that women throw out when they’re amongst their girlfriends talking about a guy.

The Average Joe will now think:

“Yes, but isn’t it very mean and unfair that women do this?!”

Listen, bro,

First of all, we men do that too. You can’t deny that.
Second, women don’t want to hurt us.

So for that reason, they will keep their comments about how you suck in bed (unfortunately not literally) to themselves…

But her friends?

They receive a full report.

Pay attention:

Even over text, you’re not safe.

Actually: especially over text, you’re not safe.

When you say something stupid to her on WhatsApp, for example, she’ll screenshot that shit and forward it to her homegirls faster than Usain Bolt can run.

So pay attention to what you say over text.

If you’re looking for tips for flirting on WhatsApp, I recommend you check out this article:

>> The 9 Keys to WhatsApp Flirting + Easily Stealable Texts

Secret #8: She knows she’s hot

Say hello to Cindy:

As you can see, Cindy is f*cking hot.

And you’re not the only one who knows this.

Because Cindy knows she’s hot too.

And she’ll absolutely take advantage of that face…

Women like Cindy are told they’re hot often, starting in their teenage years.

Many men do their best to impress them and get their attention…

… and you can bet that she enjoys this.

I know women who go out for free every Saturday night because they KNOW they’re hot.

With this power, they can control any man.

These men will happily buy them drinks…

But at the end of the night, they’ll take off with another man.

(Often a man who knows how to flirt and tease. This man is not immediately sold on the woman's looks but challenges her to see if she’s a match for him.)

Important Bro Tip:

never let a woman use you.

Especially if she knows she’s pretty.

It can save you a lot of time and wasted energy.

Secret #9: She doesn’t know she’s pretty

“Huh? But you just told me they DO know they’re pretty, Dan!”

Yep, that’s right.

Women know they’re pretty…

But more often than not, beautiful women are also insecure about their bodies… often about specific parts of their bodies.

For example, I’ve dated a woman who is a model but always critically looks at her own photos.

What’s the reason for this?

She’s insecure about the size of her nose.

This woman’s nose looks absolutely fine.

What’s more: most men would probably be looking at her body before they see her nose.

But even still, she’s insecure about this part of her body.

So remember this:

Yes, women know they’re pretty…

Yes, they’ll make use of this fact…

BUT there’s often a specific part of their body that makes them very insecure.

You can use this to your advantage when you’re seducing beautiful women.

The fact that women are also insecure often helps men to put their own insecurities into perspective.

(Beautiful) women are just human.

This brings us to the next women's secret…

Secret #10: She also farts

A few years ago, I dated a gorgeous girl…

She was the type of woman that could seem quite intimidating in the context of a club.

Beautiful body. Pretty face. Scantily clad.

I remember walking the streets of London with her and walking past a group of construction workers and seeing them unabashedly staring at her ass.

What those construction workers didn’t know is that this woman also had another side…

A side only came out when she had free time, and no other people were present.

When she was at home and went into chill mode, she put on her jogging pants, took off her make-up, and stretched out on the couch to watch TV.

And yes: She’d often start farting.

And her behavior would go from sweet and feminine to sometimes plain rude and manly.

Some people say that beautiful women don’t poop.

But they really do poop…

It stinks, and it’s dirty.

Why am I telling you this?

Because all women are only human in the end.

The hottest chick in the club has an unattractive side that she’s able to disguise for that evening.

But you know better.

Remember this well for when you’re chatting with a hot woman, dear reader.

She’s not special. She’s just as human as you are.