Strong Routine
A strong Routine is one of the best way to keep your kids calm and encourage them to do what they need to do. A routine trains your child to understand what expected of him. Then he is less confused and more able to meet your expectations. You will able notice fewer behavioral outbursts and more compliance when you set a good routine. So start by setting a routine where he wakes up and goes bed at the same time, eats the same time, take a bath at the same time. Have routine times when he visits family or goes to the doctor. He will become calmer and will do what you say when the routine drills it into his subconscious mind that this is normal.
End Argument Immediately
Arguing is especially problematic with teens, pre-teens, and young toddlers. They want something and you won't give it to them. Ending arguments in their track is essential to keeping peace in the house hold and asserting your dominance as the parent figure. Never argue back, say 'ok' and walk away. Toddlers will rapidly give up and find something else to do. Teens will complain that you never listen and sulk, but they will give up eventually when you do not respond and they will redirect their attention to something else.
Get Your Child to Sleep
First, a routine will do wonders to make your child fall asleep faster. Remove all electronics from his room so that he can't stay up playing games or watching TV. Restrict all electronics and caffeine several hours before bedtime and instead have him engage in relaxing activities up to bedtime. Keep pictures of nighttime related things. The bedroom can really set the mood for sleep so keep it calm, sleep inducing environment.
Keeping Your Child out of Something
To keep your child out of places where he or she should not go, using threats is guaranteed not to work. Saying "you will get hurt if you go there" will not mean much to your kid. Create a very negative association between the things he wants to get into and an unpleasant stimulus. Make him pay for his mistakes in a safe manner so that he never wants to make those mistakes again.
Come from a Place of Love Always
Coming from a place of Love and using love as a reward can often be more powerful than any punishment. When you discipline your kids a lot but don't take the time to say 'I love you' and give them hugs, you send a harsh message the he is a bad kid who is not worthyof love. Be sure to say 'I love you'. Being a lover instead of a fighter will claim your child and subconsciously teach him to be more loving.
Offer Rewards
You can use classical conditioning to make your child more compliant and obedient. Start to offer your kids lots of rewards. Reinforce good behaviours more than you punish bad behaviours. As a result, you train your kids to be good. They realise that good behaviour gets them what they want and bad behaviour does not.
Feed Fewer Sweets
Instead of candy, feed your child grapes or oranges. Make more home cooked dinners instead of fast food. As a result, your kid will get used to the taste of these things and will not want candy or fast food as much. His body will literally revert to wanting good food instead of bad.
Dealing With Picky Eaters
The more he is around healthy food and the more he sees you eat it, the more he will accept it as normal and the more he will want it. Exposure makes him accept the healthy food with less complaint until eating healthy just becomes part of his life. Cut food into bite-sized pieces with fun shapes, stars, smiley faces, and such things can really make your kids want to eat. It makes food more appealing and fun. Showing him healthy food can help him develop a subconscious craving for healthy items.
Persuasion
You no longer have to spend as much as time using persuasion on them, as well. It's also a way to reassure your child to end tantrums, anxiety, and misbehavior.
Understand Their Own Unique Needs
Understand that your child is a person and has his or her own unique needs. Sometimes he or she will need to lear things the hard way or make his or her decisions.
You should not influence your child to make certain decisions, such as which college to go or whom to date. Avoid the temptation to rule your child's life. Something's kids need to learn on their own and they have their own freedom. This parenting techniques can work for all kids. This is because it works on your subconscious mind, rather than conscious mind.your child is not even aware of it. You can make positive difference in his or her thinking nd and actions.
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