Violent Behavior is never Acceptable
The children do have a broad range of aggressive or violent behaviours that we do need to recognize. We can see something as commonplace as pushing and hitting in the playground as the initial stages of aggression in children and carry it forward to children who are significantly getting into trouble and fights so aggressively that legal action is involved. We need to understand their behaviours. Here are some suggestions to lower the rage of our children which keep the less violent and help them in leading a peaceful life:
Firstly, there needs to be an intervention if a child is consistently engaging in some type of violent act. We need to communicate with the child, ask him what happened to him, and tell me what got him, so angry that he would hit somebody. Oh, I see, so they were doing I get it okay and, now I go back again to apply the authority but, you do not hit that is never acceptable then I return to repairing the relationship next time you know what comes to get me I'll help you out I'll solve it I'll help; we want our kids to see us as helpful resources when they're overwhelmed or their distress come.
Secondly, we need to understand the etiology of where this aggression is coming from. Children learn this type of behavior from their environment, as their minds are considered as clean as a whiteboard, so whether it's at home or in their community it's something that does need to be addressed. As children think of their parents as one, they do not consider their parents as two separate persons. So, if parents have some conflicts among them, and they start discussing it in front of their children, and if that negotiation turns into a fight, then their children face the most horrible and annoying situation and that situation casts a horrible shadow that won't be erased. And they will also handle that type of situation in their lives, as they saw their elders do,
Thirdly, we need to indulge our children in some activities that keep them busy and help them to lower their rage. We need to lower their screen timing and give them opportunities for physical activities. Let them play in the parks and playgrounds. Let them participate in school games. Those physical activities keep their bodies and minds busy, and they won't get enough time for their distress and aggression instead in the playground they seek some values of obedience, sportsmanship, spirit, and many more, which will help lead their peaceful lives. They sleep well at nighttime when they are tired in the daytime.
Violent behavior can stem from many clinical disorders, from something as more common as ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) to various psychotic behaviors. If you suspect that your child's violence and aggression are getting completely out of hand even after the execution of the above suggestions, then you absolutely must contact your pediatrician or someone at the school, or your community to get help.
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