If we look around conscientiously and observe these two kinds of people,the one who are doing great in their fields and the ones who we think are not doing so great then we are going to find very interesting things about them. First we are going to go about the ones who apparently are not doing so great. The reason for their unseasonedness lies far behind than what we think where it should be. It lies in the time when they started off doing what they are doing right now.
Everyone tumbles in the beginning. The gamechanger fact here is the support that any nascent gets while he is starting off. If this nascent is told that he is not good enough and cant do better, this thing settles down in his mind and from the very beginning he starts to lag behind thinking that he is not good enough, no matter how hard he works it is not going to be fuitful.
Now contrary to the rookie who was told that he is not good enough, the nascent who is tapped on the back and is told that he is doing better than others he really starts to feel that way, that results in boost of his confidence and the lead he gets here changes manifold in the future because he keeps on working hard and keeps on getting results.
Knowingly or unknowingly we all have experienced this in life, if our mentor or instructor tells us that we are good, this thing not only boasts our confidence but also gives us a sense of pride, we start to take that thing as our SHTICK, we start owning that thing, we start to give it our time and effort and when we do this we become the master of that thing.
Just remember "RESULTS GIVE YOU CONFIDENCE", and for this to work we need to give a great trigger to every new thing that we starting off.
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