1. Never be anxious to have your son and daughter-in-law with you. Understand them as being separate from their own home. Doing so makes good relations with the son and his father-in-law, and realizes the fact that the son has a responsibility to build his own home.
2. Don't treat your daughter-in-law as your daughter. Think of it as your friend.
3. Your son is now married and an adult and understands his well-being and therefore it is not your responsibility to look at his wife's character and her habits.
4. Explain each other's responsibility while you are still living together. Unless your son-in-law is lovingly requesting you to take responsibility for doing what you can to save your son from the day-to-day life, if anything can be done to you, you should not expect anything after work.
5. You should be deaf and dumb when there is a dispute between husband and wife. Nowadays, the son and daughter-in-law do not like anyone's cousin in their personal affairs. This is their personal matter and let them resolve it and believe that this happens at this age.
6. Their children are theirs, and it is their responsibility to raise them and to teach them good things and to teach them why it is not your organs.
7. Be aware that your spouse understands your feelings, believes that you have a responsibility to serve you, and that your son is not his wife. It all depends on how you raised your son and the funeral.
8. You have to plan your retirement the way you want. It is a good thing if the son is helpful, but you should not expect it. More than half of your life is gone and there is still a lot to live and knowing you have to enjoy and plan to retire.
9. How and how well you enjoy your retirement depends on you. Make fun of all that and as much as possible, and if possible, use all your savings in the fun of living what you think is worth living so that you can have the satisfaction of living a fulfilling life.
10. Your Grand Children Think of your son as a gift to your family.
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