HOW PARENTING SHOULD BE DONE THE RIGHT WAY?
Parenting is a blessing !! It’s all about how parents behave with our child and connect with them emotionally, to cater their needs via their speech, action, thoughts etc. Instead of being tough with your child, all you have to do is to get through them with simple tricks ! Happy child ! Happy family is our goal. Isn’t so?
As we all have crossed over, COVID-19 with these healthy parenting ideas that can be followed to make top-notch Healthy parenting.
Talk with them about something they like, help them do their homework, Dance with them singing their favorite lullabies, Read a book with them together, and above all “Coach instead of control” is our only way to spell-word !
Parents have been raising their children this way for centuries –because it simply means parenting with a focus on empathy, connection and mindful enforced discipline.
Just talk & cuddle your kid as the way you would do to a guest. Use the words that are protective of their feelings, words can be hurtful, and it means to them a lot! Words shouldn’t be critical to behavior. Build up the ability to handle feelings to be dealt with before behavior can be improved!
If u want to raise a strong-willed adult empower your strong-willed child; just chill and say
“Honey, When you grow up I want you to be assertive, independent and strong-willed, but while you are a kid, I want you to be passive, pliable and obedient”
Observe when a child plays the role of a parent, instead of playing a child role in the relationship. No matter how they irritate you, as a parent pat them on saying positive words, just spreading around positivity
“You make my day”
“I love you no matter what”
“I’m here if you need me”
“You should be proud of yourself”
“I’m listening my child”
Meanwhile your child will teach you a lot about how the child is
You can find out so much simply by observing them like
What their interests are
What they are learning?
What’s their understanding about surroundings?
Their current stage of development and feelings, intense attachment with parents.
Remember, when a child is punished for their honesty, they begin to lie !
Some best parenting tips as follows
1. A kid who is LOVED will become LOVING
2. A RESPECTED child will become respectful
3. LISTEN to your child –they too become a great listener of yours and world
4. Set RULES and let it be fun
5. Your child will learn how you live. That’s it! What goes around, comes around ! That’s KARMA!
Ways to validate your child’s negative self talk
1. Validate their feelings
2. Focus on solving the problem
3. Foster positive thinking
4. Create a positive environment
Below are the things that we model for our kids, whether we realize it or not,
1. Relationship with technology
2. How we deal with frustration,
3. How we take care of ourselves
4. How we apologize and repair relationships
5. How we care to our environment
6. How we care for pets
Because all these define parents character, and it automatically insists children to reflect it.
DON'T FORGET TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD MENTAL HEALTH BY LOVE, EXERCISE, COPING VIA CONVERSATIONS
Always!!
Be aware of their problems and try to solve it.
Be an initiative to mold their conversations, Cope up with them by helping them learn simple skills being a toddler
Better say “Practice will make better at this” rather than yelling “This is hard”
Encourage them saying “Overcoming challenges helps you grow” instead of “Don’t do challenges”. Accomplish great growth mindset in them Bond time with your baby daily face to face rocks you up in their imaginative world
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