An Interview with Ms. Chayanika K. Barman from Assam, who won Mrs. India, 2018 with the title "Asial Elite Global Earth" and many subtitles at the same time she achieved such as Mrs. Generus, Mrs. Ideal Lady and more & later in the year 2019 she had also been able to won Mrs. India Empress of the Nation award with the title Mrs. Achiever & Mrs. Queen of the Queens held at Pune, Maharashtra & powered by Hyatt International.
Ms. Barman is presently being preparing for Mrs. Universe going to be held at America next year. She is basically a pet lover, homemaker, social activist and a writier focusing on Women Empowerment and Human Rights belongs to paper media in Assam. I got an opportunity to have some details about her journey from a homemaker belongs to a grassroot society towards model world. I am sharing below a breif about the same, please go through some of the questions I asked during our conversation and what she repiied in real.
Q1: What is the definition of women according to you?
Her Reply: Women are the God gifted key of a society or a community, if they think, they may create or destroy, they may lead the people more specifically the men. So the power should be utilized proper way positively. Women in positions of power are women who hold an occupation that gives them great authority, influence, and responsibility. Historically, power had been distributed among the sexes disparately. Power and powerful positions have most often been associated with men as opposed to women. As gender equality increases, women hold more and more powerful positions, due to policy and social reform.
Accurate and professional representation of women in social systems has been shown to be important to long - lasting success of the system. Additionally, "absence is not merely a sign of disadvantage and disenfranchisement, but the exclusion of women from positions of power also compounds gender stereotypes and retards the pace of equalization".
Q.2: If your life is a movie and your are the censor board yourself, which scene would you like to edit or delete and why?
Her Reply: I do believe that "Failure is the Peeler of Success", but I would like to delete the theme which easily makes me dominate to be failure, and instead I would like to keep my every step ahead sincerely observing the acceptance of general people who ultimately lead the society and a community towards peaceful environment in the long run.
Q.3: If you win a lottery that's for 1 Million dollar what would you like to do with that money?
Her Reply: Today the value of 1 million dollar in India, which is an approx Seven Crores & more is not a joke for us Indian or an individual family. I will surely hire one advisor to proper utilize the same following the rurles & regulation of the Government. But more specifically that amount should be utilized for me & my family's personal development as well as apart for a meaningful purpose like establishment of school on Art & Culture in remote area, where people are far away from todays potential world and the needy women will be given priority to let show their talents professionally, which will lead them towards a meaningful life.
Q.4: Between money & fame what would you choose and why?
Her Reply: Of course money, not million/billion/trillion dollars, just enough to be able to live. If I won't be able to survive myself first, then how shall I allow me to go ahead to achieve fame. I always respect and follow the ideology that "respect yourself first then you will be respected."
Q.5: In the recent years, crime against women has increased. As a woman what all steps have you taken so far? If not, then why not?
Her Reply: Being a writer as social activist, individually I am always trying to make people aware about the drawbacks and its bad impacts on development through my various write-up published in different newspapers, magazines and at the same time I use to go to the victims of domestic violence to help guiding them proper way letting them utilize the rights of women in the society as women empowerment is the main focus area of my social works.
Q.6: What is your key to happiness and what makes you sad?
Her Reply: The key to happy life is realizing that control is an illusion. Success is not the key to happiness, happiness itself is a key to success. I do believe in doing, when I do something with love that gives me full of happiness and sucess.
And mostly I do feel sad, when I see someone treats animal so badly. I can't tolerate that moment anymore mistreating, misbehaving them as they are speechless.
With those six questions to the real ideal homemaker, a daughter, a wife, a mother, a daughter in law, I became proud to had good time. I appreciate her ideology and friendly nature. Finally she requested me to post the following image with the positive words of our Honourable Former President of the Nation (Lt) Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam, so that every people who read my article may make at least a small & positive difference in their life.
Thanking you so much Madam for your valuable time and motivational conversation. I wish your all round success and all the luck for your further Mrs. Universe Journey.
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